How to Spot a Gigolo

Vincent entered this world with the natural gift of a pleasing and harmonious voice. His thick, curly dark hair softly caressed his angelic oval face. He had compelling, piercing, blue-green eyes. He was his father’s pride and joy; he had deep love for his son, and many expectations, also. “Make your mother proud,” he would often say.

Vincent’s mother had died while giving birth to him in the back seat of a taxi while visiting her parents in Chicago. His father swore to make this up to his son.

He first had him baptized in a cathedral in Italy – where he himself had been baptized, and had been an altar boy. His hope was that his son would aspire to service in the Church as well.

Both father and son moved back and forth from Italy to California every year. Franco made sure that his son’s schooling was here in the States, and that his vacation time was spent in their home town in Italy.

Vincent was seventeen years old when I first met him. He was sent to live with my grandmother, who was a distant relative of his mother, after the boy’s father died in a car accident. I was introduced to Vincent on his seventeenth birthday, during a party that the family had thrown for him. My first impression was Here comes trouble! As he strutted over to me, he proceeded to wrap a red handkerchief around his forehead, Sylvester Stallone style. What a shocker – from that day forward I saw what a real Gigolo was capable of!

In the following ten years, Vincent wreaked havoc in the lives of many women.

At seventeen, he had his first child with a fourteen-year-old, only to keep it from the girl’s parents, whom he extorted great deals of money from in order to remain part of their grandchild’s life.

At eighteen he married, and was divorced two years later, after fathering two children in that marriage, while fathering six more and a set of twins from older women who knew nothing about any other, but whom Vince extorted thousands of dollars from. He always seemed to keep up on the sex end of all of these relationships – especially the ones outside of the marriage.

At age twenty, Vince was living with a millionairess and her seventeen-year-old daughter. In one year, he extorted three quarters of her money, and got the woman’s daughter pregnant. After the baby was born, they took it and left the woman with nothing. By the time he was twenty-one, Vince already had twelve children.

At age twenty-two, Vince is still controlling his assets – receiving large amounts of money and having sex with all of his women, as well as blackmailing all of the grandparents.

At age twenty-five, Vince set himself up in a condo and bought an Audi. His wardrobe was so large he needed four walk in closets. Only the best for Vincent.

At age twenty-eight, though, Vince started to lose his hair. He turned to cocaine. The women provided of course, but it wasn’t long before he overdosed and was sent to rehab. The party was over on his twenty-eighth birthday.

Baby count at this time was fifty-three!

In counseling, Vince admits that he “Hates God” and “All women!”  Why? “Because the significant ones left him here to fend for himself!” Vincent disappeared at age thirty. Is he still out there? Is he preying on other women? You? Your daughter? Don’t ever hand your partner money, unless it’s change for his dollar. Vincent isn’t the only gigolo on the loose.

At California Psychics, we help many women identify predators. Don’t be taken!

5 thoughts on “How to Spot a Gigolo

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  2. Carmen Hexe

    Oh dear, I know the kind. They sometimes even have sociopathic traits and feel justified in taking women for everything they can get. .

    For me, the worst part is that we usually know when we meet one of these douche bags, but somehow feel that we can change or safe them. This is when they can do the real damage, because this is when women will stick around with these guys until they get dumped.

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  3. maryannex9146Maryanne x9146

    Hi, Darcy,

    Thanks for an amazing article.

    Is a taker/user made or born? I’m not certain, but I do agree with Jacqueline that in any new relationship there does have to be a balance between being the “giver” and the “taker”. It is my experience that women can usually feel when a relationship, friendship, work relationship is out of balance. Be honest with yourself and begin quietly and confidently taking very good care of yourself. If he has any potential, he’ll find you taking good care of yourself extremely attractive-if not “run” in the other direction—quickly.

    Sincerely,

    Maryanne
    Ext. 9146

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  4. Jacqueline x9472

    Hi Darcy,
    Love your article, as with any new relationship, there has to be a balance, they have to give you as much as you give them, if not then you may need to really look at the relationship, evaluate weather or not the relationship is really the right one.

    There are men out there weather they are gigolo’s or not that are the takers, this is not right nor fair rarely have I ever seen this balance out, as the relationship establishes its foundation and a taker establishes that role usually it will stay that way for the rest of the relationship, unfortunately some only want what they can get.

    Blessings and Big Hugs!
    Jacqueline x9472

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  5. Gina Rose ext.9500Gina Rose ext.9500

    Hi Darcy,
    Wonderful article, Darcy……

    These guys are the worst !!!!! Not only do they break a woman’s heart, but also drain her energy, time, AND her wallet, bank account, not to mention, loading up her charge cards.

    They have a healthy hatred for women, are usually very charming and seductive while ” being down on their luck” at the same time. They start out by playing on her maternal,nurturing instincts….until they gain an emotional hold…..then they turn passive/aggresive and manipulative.

    In the end, they usually, as Darcy points out in her article, loose their handsome good looks …or wind up in jail for things like identity theft or credit card fraud… ( where their handsome good looks do NOT help them…LOL !)……but only after they wreacked havoc for so many female victims.

    Blessed Be )O(
    Gina Rose ext.9500

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