Be Smart About It
You send him off to work with a kiss and a “Love you” and a “Drive safe,” and right into the arms of another woman. But, she isn’t some secret mistress he met on a business trip or at Happy Hour. She’s his office wife, and between the hours of 9 a.m. and 5 p.m., she is his buddy, confidant and lunch date. Of all the people in his office, he connects with her the most. You’re all for him having work friends—they make the day go by quicker and make his job more tolerable. You just wish his closest work friend was a 400-pound, elderly man with a persistent cough and sleep apnea and not someone with shaved legs who looks good in a skirt.
Admit it. You’re jealous. Even if your man doesn’t have a wandering eye and is completely immune to every come on the fairer sex has to offer, you probably think his office wife is trying to seduce him. Well maybe she is and maybe she isn’t. Maybe their conversations are innocuous or maybe they border on flirtatious. If you trust your man, you have nothing to worry about. But if you’re worried his office wife is crossing a line, there are a few things you can do to let her know who his number-one girl is:
Bring Him Lunch
Plan a romantic picnic lunch for your man. Let him know about it in advance so he can clear his calendar. Make or buy a special lunch for him with all his favorite foods and include dessert. Use nice plates, cups, napkins and silverware and lay it all out on a blanket under a tree. Dress up a little—do your hair and makeup and be sure to smell good. Can you imagine the look on his office wife’s face when he tells her he can’t have lunch with her because his lady has planned a special lunch for him? You can do these lunches once a month or as needed.
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Mark His Territory
Even if you man isn’t really into personalizing his work space, he won’t turn down a photo of you. Do you have a picture of yourself all dressed up at a fancy event? Or maybe you have a picture of the two of you from your wedding (if you’re married) or from a vacation you took together. The picture serves to remind him of his commitment to you (if he needs it) and it’s a reminder for his office wife that their relationship is and will remain platonic.
“We go into relationships at the level of our self-esteem.” – Psychic Fiona ext. 5178
She’s probably not nearly as exciting, as beautiful or as funny as you think she is, but you would know for sure if you met her. If your guy’s office has a holiday party and significant others are invited, make sure you go. If she’s there, he will have no choice but to introduce you to her. You could also invite her over for dinner at your house. Let her get a glimpse of your happy life together and show her that your man has everything he needs at home. Be affectionate with your man in front of the office wife. Keep it tasteful, otherwise you will come off as desperate and jealous. Hold his hand, stand close to him and smile at him when he talks.
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Get Her a Date
If the office wife is single, get her a date. Maybe you have a brother, friend, cousin or co-worker who might be a good fit for her. Arrange for the four of you to go out to dinner. If they hit it off, she may lose interest in your significant other because she now has one of her own.
Whatever you do, don’t freak out. Men don’t respond well to hysterical women. It won’t make you look sexy. It will just make you seem desperate, jealous and self-conscious. And if all else fails, get an office husband of your own and make sure your significant other knows about. Maybe he just needs a taste of his own medicine.