Raunchy and Normal
A man’s sexual fantasies are raunchy, non-politically correct, and he wouldn’t have them any other way: multiple partners, threesomes and lots of orgasms. Research shows that most people’s daydreams can get pretty weird. However, it seems to be a part of every healthy human being on this planet. In fact, those who do not have the occasional raunchy sex dream are actually considered to be more pathologically abnormal, and most likely have a terrible sex life.
Men and women have similar sexual fantasies, although there are a couple of key differences. Men do not dream of being forcefully overtaken by a lover quite as often. He does not create much of a story to his fantasies, but rather focuses on the torrid details of what is going on in them. Finally, all men seem to cling to the principle, the more the merrier. This differs from most women who like to keep their encounters one-on-one.
“Communication about sex goes a long way to avoid any misconceptions about such an intimate moment.” – Psychic Deejay ext. 5435
In celebration of man’s dirtiest fantasies, we look at several of his most relished sexual fantasies.
When he is having sex, he is probably thinking of someone other than his partner.
The majority of men’s fantasies have little to do with midgets, goats or Richard Gere. In fact, his current partner is the star of a good portion of his fantasies while shoveling through a normal day. But once he is actually engaging in sex with his partner, he will have the tendency to fantasize about other people. These people may include a host of different characters, including co-workers, neighbors, and his partner’s best friend or even mom.
In his fantasies, his partners change like the channels on his TV.
Guys roll through the characters in their fantasies, like they’re clicking through television stations with a remote control. What this means is that the starlet at the beginning of the show rarely gets to see the climax (so to speak). I mentioned that men don’t create much of a story to go along with their fantasies. It is more of a free for all, where guests are invited to the action, before being replaced with someone new. It is not unusual for a guy to fantasize about having sex with a crowd of volunteers before he brings down the curtain with one (or two) of his favorites.
He fantasized about having sex with other men.
I mentioned Richard Gere earlier, and I was purposely easing you into the idea that many men consider the possibility of being with another man in their fantasies. These fantasies do not always involve sex, and they rarely offer any hint of homosexual tendencies. Fantasies are just that. A safe place to experiment with some of our most torrid curiosities.
He fantasizes about his worst fears.
A man’s greatest fears become some of his favorite sexual fantasies. For instance, if a man fears going to the doctor, one of his most cherished daydreams might be an encounter with a female nurse who forces him to strip naked and endure a very thorough examination. This suggests that fantasies are not always about perfection, but about turning our most painful weaknesses into moments of pleasure.
He dreams of having a threesome.
Over three-quarters of men have dreamed of having sex with multiple partners. The most interesting fact to go along with this threesome finding, is only six percent of these guys ever bring this fantasy to reality.
She who brought on an orgasm shall eternally be welcome in his fantasies.
Of the amazing cast of characters a guy has to choose from, he actually has a pretty simple set of rules. Men’s favorite fantasies involve ordinary hookups he has experienced from the past resulting in an orgasm (or arousal). This goes against the belief that men will have sex with just any faceless stranger in his daydreams. While he could easily create the perfect woman in his mind, he prefers to relive the moments with a past love interest. This is not to say that he won’t embellish on these moments. He will often make them raunchier than they really were.
Fantasies do not compensate for a boring sex life.
The term “dream on” refers to the need of a fantasy world in order to bring pleasure from an otherwise dull existence. When it comes to sexual fantasies, the guys who have the most sexual fantasies actually report more exciting lives outside of their mind, including more sex, multiple partners, a variety of kinky positions and they even have a harder time keeping their hands off themselves.
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