Get the Guy: The Deadliest Mistake

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Matthew Hussey is UK’s leading Life Strategist and creator of Get the Guy, His rise to success as a speaker and a coach has been meteoric, from packed seminar rooms in London to New York to appearances on CNNGMTVThe Today Show for America and NBC. Get The Guy is the best way to kick start your love life. Matthew’s proven methods show women the strategies they can employ right now to take control of their love lives, instead of sitting back and hoping that it all “sorts itself out eventually.” Check out this special offer and learn specific mistakes that women make that kill attraction: Get the Guy: Three Deadliest Mistakes Women Make. Click here to learn more.

What Every Woman Needs to Know About Men

Today I’m going to go through something with you that I think every woman needs to know. This is absolutely key if you want to meet and attract the man of your dreams, and perhaps the deadliest mistake you have been making up until this point in trying to do so. With this article I’m going to go into detail as to what this mistake is, why we all do it, and the exact steps you need to take in order to stop making it.

I think we’ve all experienced a time when we’ve been approached by people we’re not attracted to. And when this happens, all we’re able to think about is the people we’re actually wanting to connect with, and wondering why on earth we can get this much attention, but they don’t even give us a second glance.

As I am sure you will agree, the reason this happens is no big mystery. When we’re in the presence of someone we really like, we tend to act like a completely different person in comparison to when they’re not around.

When we’re with friends (or with guys we’re not attracted to) we’re fun, exciting, spontaneous and we’re free to be our best selves. However, as soon as we’re talking to a guy we’re actually attracted to, something crazy happens and all of these great things we have to offer completely go out of the window!

We immediately shut off our ability to be playful; all of our charm, wit and confidence seems to fade into oblivion, and we’re left in this incredibly awkward situation trying to make an impression with this person we’re attracted to, with absolutely no idea of what to say!

And it doesn’t matter whether we make the decision that we like someone in a heartbeat or over a period of years, as soon as the decision has been made, we’re no longer able to be our best selves around that person.

So, the big question we have to ask ourselves is how do we maintain our usual level of confidence when we’re talking to someone we’re attracted to.

Here’s the solution…

Remove the intention.

Remove the intention. It’s simple really; intent creates pressure, and pressure creates nerves.

In other words, if you have a specific agenda with a situation, such as trying to gain attraction from someone you like, you are inevitably going to find it harder to be your best self.

However if you were to remove your intentions, your best self would flourish. This is often the case with the guys you’re not interested in, and the exact reason why you can’t get rid of them. You don’t have an agenda, you don’t have any nerves, and so you’re always able to be your best self around them.

In theory that seems pretty straight forward, but how do you go about removing your intentions?

In my programs I talk about a range of different ways to remove your intentions from any situation. And so for this article I really wanted to give you one of the quickest and easiest ways of doing this.

I want you to remind yourself of just how fussy you really are.

I want you to remind yourself of just how fussy you are. I know you’re probably thinking that this sounds ridiculous, but there is a very practical way of applying this.

I want you to take out a pen and paper, and write all of the things that you absolutely need in a guy in order to even consider being in a relationship with him. If you want to take things up a notch, ask yourself, if I were going to be spending the rest of my life with this guy, what characteristics would I need him to have?

Hopefully your list is going to be long; at the very least it should be demanding!

And that’s because we’re all incredibly fussy in this area. That said, the moment we want something to happen with a guy, we immediately forget all of these things we need someone to have and delude ourselves into thinking they are perfect.

You can probably think back to a time where you were talking to a guy who was your type, and based solely on the fact he was your type, all of your fussiness suddenly disappeared.

So from now on, what you need to do in order to be your best self around guys you are attracted to, is keep reminding yourself of just how many things you need in order for a guy to be right for you.

Until you’ve really talked to a guy and spend a decent amount of time getting to know him, there is just no way of telling if he is going to be right for you.

Based on his physical appearance alone, he might tick one out of ten boxes, but you might need at least eight of those things before he becomes potential relationship material. Keep this in mind when you’re talking to a guy and trust me, you will no longer feel nervous.

So, remove your intentions, feel more relaxed, and let your best self come out to attract the guy you’re speaking to.

I hope you enjoyed this article, and I just wanted to let you know that I’ve recorded another video for you in which I show you the three specific mistakes that women make once they’re starting to see a guy, the three things women do that immediately wreck any chances of it turning things into a relationship. So go straight to the video by clicking the link below and take a look:

Have a wonderful day and I will see you soon,


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4 thoughts on “Get the Guy: The Deadliest Mistake

  1. Rose Cocca

    that is so funny..i dont want to attract any guy to me…i have NO intection of meaning another guy…i always been like this..and i dont do for laughts..i do it mainly because i get myself happy..i cannot cry any more..nobody knows what is inside of me..that is only on the out side..if i can make one person smile in the morning(like you) you will make my day. when i was growing up .my friends always called my sunny…you know why? because i was always bubbly…i always made them laugh..i cant help it if you cant laugh…in all the years i know you i never seen you laugh..i wonder what you look like went you laught…or smile…do you know when you smile..your face lights up…try it sometime time…you might like it..

  2. zorvarious

    Hello Hello Matthew,

    Lucrecia here from California Psychics. It was a pleasure watching your videos. Personally, I loved the honesty, the energy and your presentation. I loved the simple and so totally right on easy to follow guidelines. I just know if women take your advise they will GettheGuy that’s right for them.


  3. zorvarious

    Hello Hello Mathew,

    Lucrecia here from California Psychics. It was a pleasure watching your videos. Personally, I loved the honesty, the energy and your presentation. I loved the simple and so totally right on easy to follow guidelines. I just know if women take your advise they will GettheGuy that’s right for them.


  4. Gina Rose ext.9500Gina Rose ext.9500


    Matthew really knows his stuff !!!!
    I’ve been giving advice like this to my female clients for at least, the past two decades now….

    The third point he makes in his video is all about chivalry…..and he’s correct. Chivalry did not die out, women just stopped requiring it. Give a guy the chance to be the knight on the white horse to the rescue, and IF he is REALLY interested in you, he will accept the challenge and step in to help.

    Every woman out there needs to listen to this video… makes sense !!!!!!

    Blessed Be )O(
    Gina Rose ext.9500


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