Get Out of the Friend Zone and Get What You Want!
It is the most frustrating, heartbreaking, and all-out maddening love story ever: boy meets girl, boy likes girl, girl just wants to be friends, boy waits for that to change. And waits. And waits. And… nothing changes. Of course, this story could be girl meets boy, boy meets boy, girl meets girl… pick any combination you like. It’s still the friend zone and it still hurts!
No matter who you are, being head-over-heels for someone who sees you only as a friend is very difficult, and it is one of the things that I am often asked to read on. Most of the time, the key to escaping the friend zone is to find out which friend zone you are actually in. So how can you tell? First of all, a good reading never hurts! But here are some friend zones to watch out for, and the angels’ tips for getting out of them!
1. Right Person, Wrong Timing!
This is bar none the most common friend zone problem that I see in readings. Sun meets Moon, Sun falls in love, Moon thinks Sun is amazing but… Moon is too busy with work, school or major life transitions… and… Sun and Moon are going nowhere fast. This is really frustrating, but the good news is that the solution is almost always extremely simple. Sometimes, the guides say, we are brought into our soulmates’ lives a bit sooner than the relationship is really meant to happen. Remember that soulmates are also our best friends spiritually and sometimes the person that we love has manifested us into their life to help and support them unconditionally while they work through a major struggle. All we have to do in this situation is be there for the one we love and be patient while they learn the lesson they need to.
2. What? You Like Me?
I cannot count the number of times that I have talked to someone who is desperately in love with a person who they absolutely cannot imagine loving them back. Yet when I ask the guides, I see that the person in question does in fact love them back. However, that person is totally unaware that the attraction is mutual. When you have two people in love but both also believe that the other would never love them back… well… it doesn’t happen. In this situation, the guides say, someone has to be brave and explicitly ask for that date. Don’t say “Would you like to hang out?” Say “I want to go on a date with you.” Remember, you want a real date, with kissing and all that. It might be scary, but your angels are more than happy to give you the encouragement and support you need to make the first move!
3. I Don’t Want to Ruin Our Friendship
Here’s the big one. This is the one we’re all afraid of. No one wants to wreck a good friendship. Let’s face it: not all love is meant for a lifetime, and it can be very complicated to stay friends after a relationship ends. Thankfully, our angels assure us, this is almost never an issue for a true soulmate connection. If that eternal love connection is there, the guides will help us bring that connection closer at the right time. If we’re not soulmates, they will help us close off the attrition so that we can just enjoy the friendship. Either way, a solid friendship is never really a road block for true love!
The friend zone does not automatically mean death for a potential relationship! If we listen to our hearts and our guides, we will see clearly what the best path to finding our true love relationship really is, and one way or another, find our escape from the friend zone.