The Art of Being Flirty
We’ve all been there. You’re at a friend’s birthday party or your favorite gathering spot, and you see an attractive person across the room. You like what you see. You want to meet them and strike up a conversation. The trick, however, is making that a worthwhile interaction, while letting them know you’re the one they’ve been waiting to meet. Sometimes it seems easier said than done. Well, here are a few tips to make your next meet and greet a positive one—even before the first “Hello” is spoken.
The first step to being a good flirt is to acknowledge an opportunity when it arrives. Be aware of your surroundings and any new people who come into life. If you’re aware, you can “seize the day” when an opportunity strikes. There are so many different places to cross paths and lives with others. Flirting can build an immediate bond of energy with someone new.
Confidence is key. Confidence is sexy. Has there ever been a time when you’ve gone out with your friends and it seems like you’re connecting with every person you meet? Chances are you were full of self-confidence, and the more connections you make, the more confident you will feel! And others will notice your self-confidence too. Self-confident people are attractive and fun to flirt with.
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Men are visual creatures, and so there are things women can do to let them know they’re interested. Make eye contact, give them a friendly glance, playfully raise an eyebrow or give them a charming smile. When you make eye contact with someone, it tells them that you’re confident and strong. Your smile tells men you like them back so make sure they know you’re interested in them and let them catch you looking and flirting!
You can flirt with someone using kinesthetic energy—the energy that comes from how you body is positioned and moves. As spiritual beings we all have an energetic ambiance “vibrating” from us. This is a great way of drawing in other people’s aura when mingling. Try it. Next time you’re out socializing, imagine your energetic aura (almost like water swirling down a funnel) pulling energy to you from that person across the room. You might be surprised when that person becomes “drawn” to you and walks over to strike up a conversation.
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Be a Good Listener
Soaking in the atmosphere and listening is a great way to brainstorm “trigger points” for a conversation when the talking does start. Whether out of nerves, or lack of self-confidence, people tend to ramble in social situations when meeting new people. But by listening, you get to know a person better and improve your chances of being in a new relationship. There’s a saying that goes, “We have two ears and one mouth,” so listening to your need friend could be twice as exciting as telling them something about yourself.
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Flirting is a fun way to bring excitement to a conversation when meeting someone new who you’re attracted to. It’s an integral part of your romantic journey and should be a staple of your adventurous life!