Getting Your Sex Life Back on Track After Cheating
Life can be rough after you’ve been cheated on. It can be hard to trust, hard to open up to others. But when the walls have come down, how do you rebuild? How do you open up once again to a fulfilling sex life?
Via the Huffington Post:
Erotic recovery is a fundamental part of healing after an affair. Your erotic life together is a very basic relationship need. After infidelity, going back to being erotically and intimately connected with your partner can be complicated.
Erotic recovery encompasses all of the emotional, physical and intimacy needs in your relationship and means that you will need to work on trust, safety and comfort. Until you and partner can heal these areas, it can be almost impossible to move beyond the affair. If you don’t repair your sex life, the lover or the “other” man or woman will still be (metaphorically) in bed with you.
Moving from being emotionally and sexually disconnected after an affair to feeling erotically joined and ready to explore a new sexual life together can seem impossible. If you have only recently discovered the affair, it means you are probably still in intense pain. But if you are choosing to work on your relationship and are working hard to stay together, at least for now, working on a new sex life together will be a vital part of your healing process going forward.
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It may seem that the bridge between the two of you is too wide to cross. Yet you may find yourself desperately wanting to connect and wanting to hold your partner. You may each crave the feeling of being safe in each other’s arms. And you may even find that you are more turned on by your partner than ever before. This is something that couples don’t often talk about. The intense renewal or revival of passion that happens in a marriage or committed partnership after someone cheats is more common than most people realize. It makes sense that you would find your partner intensely attractive at this time. The distance between you that has been created as a result of an affair can many times increase the attraction as well. Although this feels confusing, it is a natural result of a new relationship being formed — who is this person that you thought you knew?
What do you think—how long does recovery take?
“Trust is so important in relationships and it can be a deal breaker when trust has been broken.” – Psychic Deejay ext. 5435