When Your Insecurities Get in the Way of Your Relationship
Lately, Psychic Nicholas ext. 5499 has received lots of questions from women wanting to know what their partner is thinking. This usually stems from the caller feeling frustrated because they can’t understand their partner even though they’re speaking the same language!
In these cases, Nicholas acts as a translator. He can feel what the caller is really sending out and what the other person is receiving. “People will misinterpret based on past experiences and the truth that is being conveyed,” Nicholas told me in a recent interview. He also finds that sometimes the caller’s insecurities rise to the surface when they can’t understand their partner or don’t feel their partner understands them. When this happens, here are a few tips Nicholas suggests.
1. Get Grounded to Get a Clear Perspective
So often we allow our emotions to blind us to reality. Nicholas says, “Getting present is so important to understand what the person is really saying.” To get grounded, Nicholas encourages people to ask guidance from their higher power, Spirit or their guides. This will help you become more present in the moment. Get your own personalized advice, contact Nicholas today!
2. Let Go of Expectations and Assumptions
In a new relationship, we bring with us lots of baggage in the form of expectations and assumptions. Your new partner is not you’re old one. So why do you continue to expect and assume they will be that ex? Nicholas recommends allowing time to really get to know each other. That way you can learn the language of this relationship – which can differ greatly from your previous relationship. “Without trust, the relationship will keep spinning its wheels and will not grow,” Nicholas wisely reminded me.
3. Apologize and Move On
I was not surprised to hear from Nicholas that many people break up over misunderstandings or feeling that their partner doesn’t get them. What surprised me is how many people got back together after one of them talked with Nicholas. As he explained to me, he can “get the intense resentment and personal interpretations out of the way.” Readings with him reveal the reality of the situation, and he can help the caller shift their perspective from emotionally-based to reality.
In all of this, there must be an eagerness to allow your partner to explain themselves in their own ways. It might take some time to fully understand them, but with time and a few psychic readings, you can set a foundation for a long-lasting relationship.
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