Attract Love – Tell the Universe

Between work and home life, there isn’t much time to find a soul mate. Yet with this simple technique, you can quickly and easily tell the universe what you want in a soul mate. There is one catch – expect that you will get a soul mate!

A few years ago, I moved to Los Angeles. In this new city, I was alone with no friends, and anxious to start a new chapter in my life. In my journal, I wrote a letter to the universe stating what I wanted in my soul mate. I listed all the qualities I found important in myself and wanted to see in another. On a regular basis, I returned to the letter often, rereading it, updating it, and changing it as I changed.

One evening at an event at my favorite local bookshop, I asked someone if they could help me find a book on a particular subject. With joy and a look of glee, he told me I was in luck. A friend of his actually wrote on the subject I was interested in, and was at the shop that evening.

For the rest of the evening this friend and I talked and talked. The more he talked, the more I saw him matching my list. I thought that this was too good to be true. Here is a man that fits exactly what I want, exactly what I told the universe. At one point, I actually got up to leave, thinking that this couldn’t be right. How in the world could I actually get what I wanted?

After a moment, I set my ego aside and embraced this opportunity. I’m happy to say that it’s been seven years, and I’m still with him.

1. You’re Worth It!

Moving to Los Angeles was a huge leap of faith for me. I had left behind lots of bad relationships and regrets. In my new city, I wanted to find the real me. I took some time to write what I liked about me. Then I wrote about what I loved about me. The lists took me by surprise. I had a lot to offer someone. Try it yourself and believe it!

2. Be Specific

Tell the universe what you want in a soul mate. List all the qualities you treasure in a partner. Describe the type of work they would do, the kind of education, and so on. The more details you provide, the better the picture you project to the universe.

3. Make It Real

My first list resembled that of a superhero. Although it had some great characteristics, it was a bit unrealistic. I realized that I was creating someone who could never exist. Upon reflection, I found that I was protecting myself from getting hurt or rejected. After all, if he didn’t exist then how could I ever get hurt or feel rejected? I went back to my Worth It list and kept reminding myself that I am worth being loved and sharing love. Take a moment to ask yourself why you want these qualities in a soul mate. If you don’t know why, then you aren’t sending the universe a clear message.

4. Keep It Current

As time goes on, add to the list when new ideas arise. My experiences in L.A. changed me and I became a new person. Over time, we all grow and change. Our tastes, styles, and interests evolve. So it would be logical our needs and desires in partner would also change. Go back to the list and update it frequently.

What are your tips for finding a soul mate?

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7 thoughts on “Attract Love – Tell the Universe

  1. yamilet

    this article is amazing and I been thinking of moving out state myself leaving a lot of baggage behind and start fresh. but then fear has been holding me back. so Im double glad I read this it gives me a leap of faith. thank you everyone

  2. shineonme

    i love this article.Im reading a book now called THE SECRET this books talks about the way people draw things to there life through their thoughts.HOPEFULLY ALOT OF PEOPLE OUT THERE READ THIS BOOK IT CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE

  3. maryannex9146maryannex9146


    Thanks for a great article on attracting love.

    I particularly appreciate your point number 3. “Make It Real”
    It’s so powerful that you recognized your original list of expectations was protection from getting rejected or hurt by not getting into the fray in the first place. I’ve often thought that “playing the field” by dating several people at once was also a subconcious way of protecting oneself from getting too close to one person and being open to getting hurt.


    X 9146

  4. Jacqueline

    Love your article,
    My dear friend and I laugh about when she was looking for Mr Right, she wrote down everything that she wanted in her future mate, but she wasn’t too specific within her detail, shortly after writing her list, she meet her Mr Right, But, even though he was so perfect in so many ways, she had realized she should have been more specific in her detail to the universal, such as liking the same friends, enjoying going out to dinner, I have seen you cant be too specific.

    Blessings and Big Hugs!
    Jacqueline x9472

  5. velvetoversteel

    Ha… I meant to say that ‘I figured out why’ I attracted those types in the past.. so I wouldn’t anymore. That was my advice to add to your great post! 🙂 ~ Coreen @ VOS

  6. velvetoversteel

    What an outstanding article and advice, Holly!!

    I took a hugh leap of faith too by moving to another state 5 years ago. In that time I have let go of the past and started figuring out who I was, what I was looking for and also the characterists of the men I wanted to attract. Of course I attracted the types I had in the past, so I wouldn’t attract those types again and move on to a ‘great’ relationship finally. 🙂

    I have written letters to the universe and at first I was unrealistic for the very save reasons. I totally understand. Keeping them updated is a great idea too!

    I look forward to reading many more of your post, Holly!

    Many Hugs,


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