5 Ways to Flirt if You’re Shy

Playing Demure is an Art, so Try it!

Just because you’re a bit timid when it comes to flirtation doesn’t mean you can’t make coyness work for you. Playing demure is an art all its own, so read on to knock his socks off without the over-aggressive approach that some women adopt.

Own it

Shyness has it’s own flirtatious appeal, so instead of pretending to be someone you’re not, work your bashful angle to its best advantage. Playing coy can be quite seductive, as it invites the guy to be the aggressor, which appeals to most men’s natural instincts. Should you even pursue this person? Get a love reading with Psychic Saphira ext. 5243 and find out.


Take a deep breath and calm yourself down. Shyness goes hand in hand with nervousness, so before you fidget and stiffly smile your way into an awkward conversation, remember to center yourself and relax!

“You must first decide that you are worthy of love and that your value to be loved is not determined by someone else but yourself.” – Psychic William ext. 5131

Time and Location

If more privacy boosts your courage, then by all means be strategic in your approach. If he’s around his friends, a large audience could make you uncomfortable, so catch him at a time when it’s just the two of you.

Let Him Do the Talking

If you’re bashful in conversation, it’s easy to let him take the lead. People usually enjoy talking about themselves, and your receptive behavior demonstrates that you are a great listener. This also makes you appear more mysterious, which is always enticing! Let him do some work to pull you out of your shell. Everyone appreciates what they’ve had to work a little harder for, and this includes potential mates!

Never Underestimate Body Language

If you can’t say how you feel initially, there are other forms of communication. Body language can be even more powerful than words, so use it! Prolonged eye contact, a little smile and moving your body in simple ways that catch his attention or show him you’re interested are all physical ways to express your attraction.

“The eyes can be your most valuable tool in attracting a person. A wink, a shy glance, that come hither look. And then of course the smile.” – Psychic Quinn ext. 5484

One thought on “5 Ways to Flirt if You’re Shy

  1. Gina Rose ext.9500Gina Rose ext.9500

    Hi Alina,

    Yes, shyness can be VERY sexy

    …. and ” the eyes ” have it!!!!!

    I reside in the southern area of the USA and these southern belles down here really know how to be coy & sexy , but also ladylike and shy, just by using their eyes.
    It’s a very alluring and heady mixture, enough to make any man curious !!!

    Nice article, Alina.

    Blessed Be )O(
    Gina Rose ext.9500

    ps….I confess….I’ve used my own enerald green eyes on occassion just for that purpose….lol lol


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