How to Decode Sex Dreams

Sex can be a very powerful influence in our physical, emotional, and spiritual lives. When we have dreams about sex what does really mean?

The Secrets of Sex Dreams

A dream lover enters your darkened bedroom. His face is hidden, but he somehow seems familiar. Anticipation escalates. He takes you into his arms, kisses you deeply and pulls you onto the bed. After a time, you gaze up at his face and are shocked to discover that you’re looking at your frumpy, middle-aged boss. What the heck? Are you struggling with understanding what sex means in your dreams or in your life and want some advice and guidance, give one of our experienced psychic readers a call and find your answers!

Relax, it’s Not About Sex

Okay, so you just dreamed of doing the deed with someone you’re not remotely, by any stretch of the imagination, attracted to (You can substitute your boss for a  friend, cheating ex-lover or a bear you just saw at the zoo). But don’t just dismiss the dream as ridiculous. The secret to interpreting its meaning is to realize that it’s probably not about sex at all. Although erotic scenarios can be the result of unfilled desires—or some wicked hormones—the dream character usually mirrors a quality within you. This quality may be in the developing stages or just something you want for yourself. Having trouble articulating what you want for yourself? Psychic Jean ext. 5132 can help!

Bears, Bosses and Powerful People

For instance, a naughty dream about the aforementioned bear at the zoo may indicate the need to break free of self-imposed limitations (the cage) and let yourself roar—that is, express your anger, individuality or creativity.

As for the sexy dream involving your boss, if he or she is good at what they do (in the boardroom, that is), then a sexy encounter may indicate you’re accessing your “inner boss” and taking charge of your career. Similarly, dreaming of sex with a powerful public figure means you’re embracing your own personal power. Or, it may indicate you’re too focused on power.

Nasty or Nice: Ex-lovers and Celebs

This brings up an important point when analyzing any dream: The meaning has a lot to do with how you feel about the dream characters. For example, if you dream about sex with an abusive ex-lover, ask yourself if you’re being too hard on yourself or others. If you dream of having sex with a celebrity you admire, ask yourself which traits that person has, such as talent, wealth or beauty, that you want for yourself.

When Sex Means Sex

If you dream of sex with your partner, chances are it’s about sex. Pay close attention to how you feel in the dream and upon waking. Feeling happy is a good sign that intimacy is thriving between you and your partner. If the main feeling is frustration, apathy, anger or some other negative emotion, then it’s time to work on the emotional/sexual connection in your relationship.

More Common Dream Lovers

If it is someone you know, sex with them in a dream means you’re taking on a quality that you most associate with that person. If the dream character is a female stranger, you’re embracing your feminine side (gentleness, passivity). If the stranger is male, you’re embracing your inner male (assertiveness, competitiveness).

Dream sex with a rapist could mean you may be giving your power away to a negative attitude, habit, person or situation in your life.

If you’re having sex with an angel in your dream, you’re getting in touch with your spiritual side—perhaps in a more personal way.

Happy dream sex with a demon means you’re accessing your creativity by exploring your dark side. If the dream evokes a negative feeling, then you’re taking on a destructive attitude, habit, person or situation.

Dream sex with a stranger means you’re developing a talent or trait that you were previously unaware of.

Dream sex with an animal means you’re getting in touch with your instincts or with a quality you perceive in that animal. Conversely, you may be letting your wild side run amok.

If you’re interested in a more personal dream analysis, give Chloe ext. 9421 a call. She knows why you’ve been dreaming what you’ve been dreaming!

7 thoughts on “How to Decode Sex Dreams

  1. Kim Hudson

    I have had several dreams of both my ex’es, well one is current husban. The dream is always them having sex with the first wives. What does that mean

  2. Laura

    I live with my boyfriend. For the past 3 weeks from the time he falls asleep till the time I wake him up in the morning he is dreaming about having sex with his best friend ( who is a guy ). He talks in his sleep & also makes actions that he is preforming in his dreams. Please help me. I don’t know if this means that they are having sex.

  3. Curtis

    Growing up, I can only remember having one dream, my childhood sleep was terrible nightmares. Yet I had this one dream that throughout my life, has come to me again and again. It set me on a journey to find the beautiful lady in that dream. The dream, even being just a little boy, in the dream, I was a man. I was standing alone in a beautiful field of wild flowers, watching the Butterflies dancing among them. Then looking up, I saw in the distance a small figure walking toward me, it was a woman. As she got closer, I was taken with how she seemed a part of the beauty around her, she made my heart pound. The sun made her look as if she glowed, her eyes sparkled like they held the stars. She smiled looking up at me and I felt such a warm, safe feeling. Then she placed her arms about my neck, slowly our lips met, barely brushing, then softly, a lingering kiss that left my legs feeling like warm butter and tiny streams of electric ran through me. As we stood looking into each others eyes, the field began to slowly spin around us, growing ever faster, the flowers became a blur. She smiled and said, “we are meant to be, you must find me.” That puzzled me, as she was in my arms. Then the field stopped spinning and we were no longer in the field. We stood some where in the depth of space, planets, comets, stars, beautiful beyond anything I had ever seen. I ask her if we were to fall in love, was our love to be so beautiful? I said other things too as she did, but time has taken the memory away of the exact words. She then began to float backwards from me and fade away. Even after she was gone, her parting words drifted to me. ” Find me, don’t forget me, you must find me. With that I always woke and always found tears on my face. 30 some years ago, I met a young lady that looked exactly like the lady in my dream. Her eyes sparkled, the sun made her look as if she glowed, she smiled at me and I felt the same feeling as in my dream. I fell head over heels in love with her, only I could not win her heart and she would break mine. No matter how many years passed, we always found each other again. Long sad story. That dream still haunts me, I guess I never will find the lady I was suppose to find, or some dreams are never meant to be.

    1. Keith Bullard

      I dreamed a dream similar but the woman reviled herself to be Aphrodite, she helped me to release all my bottled up emotions.

  4. Gina Rose ext.9500Gina Rose ext.9500

    Great explanations of these types of dreams, Cortney !!!!

    I’ve said this before , but you really know your stuff !!!!!!!

    Blessed Be )O(
    Gina Rose ext.9500


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