Psychic Forum: Helping With Loneliness

Betty in Hawesville, Kentucky asks:

I am sixty years old. I lost my husband five years ago. I had my son at age twenty in 1970, and then my daughter in 1973. I am so lonely – will I ever meet anyone who will care for me and for me to have the same feelings toward him? I have one grandson and a brother, and that is all the family I have. I’m so depressed, I stay at home with the blinds drawn and don’t go anywhere unless I have to.

Calling all psychics – what do you see for Betty? What’s the best thing for her to do?

7 thoughts on “Psychic Forum: Helping With Loneliness

  1. jim

    I’m married but I sleep in the other room, beleive it or not I’m lonely. I have a beautiful daughter, and grandaughter. I try to hug my wife it’s an effort. I just need the word LOVE. HOPE YOU CAN HELP

  2. misskrystal

    Hello Miss Betty-
    First of all, I have had some wonderful times in Kentucky. I met some beautiful people there…What a nice place to live!
    Second, your husband, on the other side, is whispering how pretty you still are, and you always were. ;)However, he wishes that you would realize that he is right next to you. And such a strong spirit.. Your husband is sending me messages that he appreciates so much in you. He feels that you stood by him, and that means so much to him. But now he is standing by you, on the other side. There are also two women, on the other side trying to help you as well. One is a little silly? Upbeat, and had a natural sense of humor.

    As a medium, I know that connecting to him, through a medium reading, could help you in many ways. Also, he wishes he could help you with your emotional pain, but one of the beauties of being on the other side, is, they don’t have the “time” issue we have. In other words, part of being here, on Earth, we have issues of working with “patience”–On the other side, time is something that almost does not exist, so they don’t have the issue of, “What is taking so long.” They are spared as they don’t have to suffer over waiting, etc. It’s bliss…

    A lot of people who have lost spouses find peace and relief talking to a medium.
    Actually, I have worked with a lot of widows/widowers who used the medium readings for not only emotional healing, but even more, memories that have been forgotten.
    You may be surprised what memories have been buried, and the spouse on the other side, many times, can remind you of things, that either you forgot, or, did not realize the sentimental meaning that those memories had for your spouse. Seriously, not only does it help, tremendously, but it can also give you a lot of clarity that can be fuel to motivate you, give you new incentive, natural direction/not forced (what would emerge emotionally inside of you) and want to get back out there on the globe. It’s like “seeing the light” finally-no more darkness…..It’s my passion. As well as many other mediums, too.

    A medium reading could do wonders for you. I would love to help link you to the other side, and, we also have other wonderful mediums here, as sometimes speaking to a few us can also be full of confirmation and delight. You are not alone, my dear. Not only is he with you, but you have other loved ones, too. Thanks.
    God bless you,
    Miss Krystal

  3. Gina Rose ext.9500Gina Rose ext.9500

    Hi Betty,
    Your story touched me so ….I did a bit of research on your behalf over the holiday weekend, and found many support groups out there that are tailored just to meet your needs… group is called LIFT.

    You might want to consider joining a group known as LIFT…..LIFT is a support group for widows and widowers……****** people who have been thru what you are going thru, and who understand and offer support services.
    LIFT also has group outings and activities to help ease you back into socializing again. LIFT is nationwide organization.

    Getting back out again and socializing is alot easier if you go thru a support group such as LIFT ….there are also many other groups out there you can join……look into them……but that is where and how I would start.
    Betty,this life is already too short and is meant to be lived to the fulllest !!!!!

    Blessed Be )O(
    Gina Rose ext.9500

  4. abigailx9570

    Dear Betty,
    The first thing I see is you have so many memories to cherish as a mother and wife. I get a deceased female loved one from the other side saying they love you. A female friend will get you out of this situation and going out of the house. Your husband wants you to live life happy and so do your children. Open the blinds let the light in, wear bright summer colors this lifts the mood, scents of orange are uplifting and invigorating, get out in nature the sun gives you a spiritual boost. Do nice loving things for yourself. Turn that love light on…..say you are ready and you are not alone. By far you have family members who love you, spiritual beings all around you.
    Visualize what you desire, write it on paper, and let go of thinking about what you do not have instead focus on what you do have. Negative mind chatter of I’m never going is going to get you that. When you focus on what you are not getting or having you get more of it. Instead focus on what is good and you will bring in more of that. The sooner you do this the sooner your new partner will arrive just crack the door open so he can find you ~

    Many Blessings & Cyber Hugs


  5. Jacqueline

    Hi Betty,
    Your story is so sad a great amount of loss to deal with, remember that universal law cannot and does not continue to stay the same, it just cant…You will be happy and its coming very soon, I see you will find someone who you will a great deal of love with, but first I see major empowerment with you, through this you will find it easy to get out of the house in order to meet a really great guy.

    Blessings to you Betty!
    Jacqueline x9472

  6. scsbds

    i too am going thought a life change, married for 28 year and now gone,
    so say your prays, everyday, these help so greatly, go see your dr, He too can help
    join a church group, see old friends,
    everyone want to help everyone these days,, let them help you, it your turn
    all my love and prays, dear

  7. browneyesbrowneyes

    Hi Betty, I am not a psychic but I do understand how you feel. I lost my husband 5 yrs ago also. I get so lonely sometimes that I dont know what to do. But I can tell you this. Staying at home with the blinds drawn is not the answer. It only adds to your depression. I have very little family too. And like you I have a grandson. Spend time with your grandson if that is possible. He will bring joy into your life. I cant tell you if you will meet someone to spend your life with but the possibility will increase if you start going out even if you dont want to. I dont know where you live or what is available to you, but going out for coffee or taking interest in a hobby that will get you out of the house is a start.
    I too was depressed for a long time Betty. But its getting so much better by spending time with friends and family. And I am trying very hard these days not to think too much about the future but enjoy today. Enjoy your grandson, as he will be grown sooner than you think. Also, do for yourself. You deserve to take good care of yourself and give to you. Luxurious bubble baths are not expensive but they make you feel so good. Put on your makeup and fix your hair. Buy a new outfit. That doesnt have to be expensive either. I shop the clearance racks and have collected some very nice things.
    Put you first for a change Betty. It works wonders. I hope I have helped even a little. Good luck to you. And remember to love yourself first. Im finding it works wonders.


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