Are You Hesitating?
Many people question whether they should make a change for a long time before actually moving forward. This kind of freezing happens for a lot of reasons, including:
- Transformation is scary.
- People don’t know what needs to change.
- Society criticizes every decision that’s made—good or bad.
In hesitating to make choices about our futures, we stay stuck in our pasts. Often, people wait until life is unbearable before doing anything differently. But we don’t have to live this way. If you think you’re ready to make a change but you’re still unsure, here are a few indicators it’s time.
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1. You Have Forgotten Your Worth
Criticism and intolerance are two big factors in decision making for humans. We want to be loved and accepted, and when others don’t agree with our choices we sometimes overlook what we need in lieu of what we think will bring more love and acceptance. But doing what others think is best is not always what is best, so you must learn to trust your own opinion again.
You deserve admiration, support and love, just like anyone else, but you first must give it to yourself. Figure out who your biggest critics are and limit your time with them. Then surround yourself with the people who make you feel valued and who will help you reach your goals.
2. You Hold Onto the Past
When the ups, downs, losses and sorrows seem overwhelming, it can be hard to stop thinking about what happened in the past. This pain of what happened can prevent us from moving forward, afraid we will repeat whatever mistake was made.
When people live this way, they are forgetting about love, kindness and the value of learning through these experiences. Yes, bad things happen. No, they do not define us. Instead of staying stuck, give yourself the same kind of love you’d offer up to a friend in need. Remind yourself you always do the best you can with the choices you’re given. Take one step at a time.
3. You Don’t Have Any Passion
If the life you’re currently living no longer brings you joy, it’s time for a change. There was a time in your life when you couldn’t wait to get out of bed and take on the day. You can get back to that feeling! What dreams used to light you up? What do you secretly wish you could do every day that would help change your outlook on life?
If you can answer those questions but you’re not doing anything you listed, now is as good a time as any to start implementing those changes. Face it, the life you are living isn’t matching your internal needs. But, if you can chase down your passion each day, you’re going to feel like your life is worth living again.
4. You Sweat the Small Stuff
Everyday irritations shouldn’t be debilitating or infuriating. If you allow minor irritations to build up over time, they’re going to feel a lot bigger than they really are. But, if you can remind yourself that life’s challenges, even in the day-to-day, can make you a better person (instead of a bigger basket case), you’re going to have an outlook that helps you overcome. How you respond to what happens every day is totally up to you, but if you are finding yourself angry or heartbroken over seemingly small things, it’s time to change this.
No matter which route you take, forward movement is much healthier than no movement at all. If you know you need change but you’re afraid to make it, a psychic can help you navigate this transition gracefully. We can guide you along the path toward your future and release you from the shackles of your past.
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6 thoughts on “4 Signs You Need to Make a Change”
Hi Marin, what a terrific article. Thanks. Miss Krystal
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