Understanding Virgos in Relationships
Virgos are perfectionists and can be one of the most difficult signs to have a relationship with. Whether you’re a man or a woman, there’s much to understand. Are you a Virgo, or are you romantically tied to one? Check out the advice our psychics have to offer.
Cameron ext. 5412 says:
“A Virgo man may be perceived to be a control freak, but he just likes things a particular way. He may have a system for the way he keeps his shirts, a certain part of the closet where his shoes are in order by designer, and ties laid out for certain days of the week. Virgo men love to take care of whomever they are dating. Preparing for a date is important to the Virgo man, and there are usually a lot of specific details he’s covered to make it special—nothing is left to chance. Virgo men have to understand that the constant feedback they give their partner might seem to be helpful, but makes her feel criticized and overwhelmed. There must be times where the Virgo man decides that everything is good enough as it is for the sake of the relationship, even if he feels he has a more efficient system, or he had a better way of doing things. He doesn’t win the battle if he proves he was right, but she shuts down and doesn’t want to talk to him again. A good question for the Virgo man is, ‘Do you want to be right, or do you want to be happy?’
“A Virgo woman often wants to organize a man’s life to prove how much she loves him, but some men like their mess—they don’t see themselves as needing ‘rehabilitation.’ I’ve found that with Virgo women who end relationships—especially if the relationship ended abruptly or he left her—they want closure, and will often feel overwhelmed by a desire to talk to him one more time in order to find out what happened. The reason for this is that Virgo women don’t like messes, physical or emotional, and they want to tie up all the loose ends. This can keep them from meeting the new person who wants to come into their lives. I will often say, ‘You don’t need to hear from him to have closure. You can tie up those loose ends yourself.’ Some Virgo women will have a list of what they want in a partner, and will try to control the process, but then they lose the mystery they are looking for. When Virgo is at its best, she is able to care and nurture, and be genuinely helpful, while allowing everyone, including herself, room to make mistakes.”
Summer ext. 9898 says:
“I’ve observed that the major differences between Virgo women and Virgo men are in matters of the heart. Though debatable, I feel Virgo should pair up with another Virgo because they can be so particular. No other sign understands each other like a Virgo and Virgo partnership.
“Virgo men can be natural bachelors. They don’t seem to be lonely. They enjoy the peace, quiet, and order that come with living alone and avoid the chaos of real life. Virgo women usually want to fuss over someone and want commitment after they have ‘approved’ their mate. Virgo men don’t like glitter. Virgo women like a natural look, but they are open to whatever is necessary to make them more perfect. Virgo women may say things are okay when they’re not, while a Virgo male can be overly critical with the person he loves. To him it means he loves them and is just trying to improve them.
“Trust, reliability, and a stable love wins and keeps the heart of the Virgo woman, where the males can get caught up in a ‘Stepford Wife’ kind of mentality, or a fantasy woman that could not possibly exist. That’s why many end up as bachelors, or marry late in life.
“I did a reading for a woman (not a Virgo) who was getting married and her Virgo fiancé (he was forty-two and was never married) wanted to pick out her wedding dress so she would be flawless for their wedding! She was uneasy about that but it was when she opened his linen closet and saw hundreds of floor to ceiling white towels perfectly folded in three inch spaces between each one that she began to have second thoughts. She wasn’t sure she could live up to someone so neat. In his perfect Virgo fashion he went to her place and cleaned out her linen closet and refolded all her towels. I reassured her that her man was being a true Virgo, not a psycho, and that they were destined to be together.
“Since she hated housework, that was a perk and the wedding went on. True story!”
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