Why Are Virgos so Difficult?
Learn how to bring out the best when dating a Virgo and be wary of relationship pitfalls. While cautious in love they’re a rewarding partner when understood. Don’t be fooled by the name. The Virgo is no simpering virgin who might be easily impressed and effortlessly satisfied. Rather, this complex sign heralds a person who is cautious in love – but a very rewarding partner when understood and appreciated. So if you’re thinking about dating the Virgin (or your romance is already underway) be wary of the pitfalls, and heed how to bring out the best in this mysterious personality.
The good news? Virgos never approach anything halfheartedly, which means yours will undoubtedly devote mountains of energy to your relationship. If you’re still in the flirtation stage, be prepared for a dedicated courtship.Your Virgo may lavish energy in the form of gifts, calls and compliments. Or, more likely, you’ll find their energy spent in the form of more conservative, but carefully thought-out gestures – and painstakingly laid plans. And don’t expect that dedication to dissipate once flirtation gives way to the long-term. It’s quite the opposite… Virgo’s efforts may redouble when faced with a new role to perfect. Remember – they are never quick to give up on a relationship.
A Virgo is likely to focus on doing it right, on being the “perfect” partner. This can be frustrating when your lover is so focused on taking the perfect steps that they miss the right ones. You may find you have a great listener, who always remembers your favorite meals or plans hopelessly romantic Friday nights – but doesn’t want to talk about their doubts regarding the relationship, or the problems they’re having at work. It may be up to you to make sure you don’t miss out on the makings of true intimacy. You’ll have to help your Virgo see that the best relationships aren’t perfect, and that being real will bring you closer together.
Of all the zodiac signs,Virgo has the best eye for details – and a mind that’s built for analysis. They also have a refreshingly honest drive to be helpful to others. These qualities make for a partner who is talented at assessing your needs, and helping with your problems. They will never fail to notice that you crave sweets when you’re happy, or that you’re uncomfortable when talking about your family. Your Virgo may also have uncanny insights into your problems, because they notice things about you that you yourself might miss.
Unfortunately, a keen observer can also make for a finder of faults – your Virgo may notice details you’d rather not have brought to light. Virgos can come across as harsh or critical… even as know-it-alls. Try not to be offended. Keep in mind that Virgos notice just as many flaws in themselves. It is in their nature to consider all the details, and their criticism is often their way of trying to help.
Relentlessly practical, the Virgo is probably the sign that is least likely to bring unnecessary drama into your life. Virgos are down to earth, and will acknowledge when they are wrong as long as they are presented with clear, logical facts. Also notoriously clean and healthy, Virgos like everything to be in its place and at its best.
On the other hand, a Virgo’s capacity for order and logic may push your limits, especially if you take an earthy approach to romance. While often creative, the Virgin is rarely dreamy or whimsical. Pack rats beware: the Virgin is likely to clean your apartment and try to change your habits. And if you’re a dreamer yourself, be prepared to adjust to The Virgin’s Vulcan sense of logic.
For Virgos, love comes slowly, and burns deeply. It is difficult for a Virgo to fall in love, and even after taking the leap, it can be hard to express those feelings. A Virgo thrives on self-control, and needs time to understand what they are feeling before acting on it. This can be maddening when you’re aching for warmth and expression. Don’t misread a Virgo’s hesitation as coolness or lack of interest: your Virgin will express love in their own way – you just may need to demonstrate your own feelings first.
In the bedroom, the Virgo’s perfectionism and helpfulness translates to an eagerness to please. The Virgin may be careful in love, but is hardly prudish about physical intimacy. This attentive lover loves giving as much as receiving, and will never leave a partner unsatisfied. While Virgos are usually unstinting in giving pleasure, they can be reserved about expressing their own passion. The same sense of caution and control that governs emotions can rule the Virgo sexually. If you can manage to unleash the Virgin’s passionate side, however, you’ll find yourself paired with a dedicated lover whose attention to detail will drive you wild.
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