I am 36 years old and an Aquarian. There is a very young man who has crossed my path. He’s also an Aquarian, but 22. I have been trying to end this connection with him but the attraction is so strong. Is he just a test I need to pass to reach what God has for me?
Celeste in Gauteng
While I don’t presume to speak for any God, I can tell you that your young Aquarian presents as part gift and part challenge. The gift of this particular relationship is that has successfully awakened much life in you; but the challenge is you following through with what you know and feel to be the right thing to do for each of you – bringing it to an end.
The two of you have a very powerful connection, but the relationship itself is not one that was meant to be long-term. It appears that the ending is inevitable, and most likely sooner rather than later. Unfortunately, it isn’t a simple and friendly fading away.
Even though it will be difficult for you, it would be best if you strongly and clearly ended your association with this man. The whole “let’s be friends” thing doesn’t work. When you are ready to take that step, do it with strength and speed, firmly without being unkind. Dragging this out in hopes of easing pain isn’t going to work for either one of you. Neither is trying to come together and cement the relationship.
This isn’t a pass or fail test, nor is it a right or wrong moral barometer. It is simply one of those karmic ties that enhances as well as complicates this life.