Getting Married in Ghana to a Man She Hasn’t Met in Person
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My name is Nelly and I am going through a lot right now. I recently separated from my partner of seven years. He just left me for no reason and got engaged to another woman! This woman is the same woman he was cheating on me with. It’s been so hard for me to deal with this because we have two kids together, but my faith got me through it.
I recently met a man who lives in Ghana. He’s a wonderful support system for me and my kids. However, we haven’t met in person yet. I’m going to go see him in July and we are getting married in Ghana in August. Sure enough, my kids’ dad has started coming around again. It’s confusing. I really love my man in Ghana and I don’t want anything to step in the way of our marriage. What should I do?
Psychic Kallista ext. 9623 responds:
Thank you for reaching out to me. You are amazing. You’ve experienced so much heartbreak, and yet you have so much inner strength. Your angels are all around you, buoying you up, supporting you, and watching over you and your kids.
Your partner is trying to get back with you because he’s missing you and all you do for him. He recognizes that you are a wonderful mother and a very caring partner. You were so loving and giving to him, but he took so much and gave so little back to you. It’s confusing because you sense he misses you and wants you, but you know you cannot trust him. He is irresponsible, selfish, and will want to cheat again if you let him back in.
You’ve allowed him to come in and out of your life because he is the father of your children, but he must do better or you will close the door on him with the possible exception of acting as a father to your kids.
Trying to make a go of it again would require couples counseling, but he may attempt to resist that. I cannot advise you legally, but now would be the time to explore what your rights are should you decide to essentially put him and the pain he’s causing you out of your life.
Nelly, your hope for something better for you and your kids is certainly understandable, but something is wrong here. It seems there is a block to you going forward with getting married in Ghana. Spirit wants to protect you. This man is not telling you the whole truth. Things are not quite as rosy as he has painted them for you. He certainly has not done all he needs to do to try to come to you first to meet you. He’s putting that burden on you.
He has problems with money, and tries to get all he can of it, but not always in a way that is aboveboard. And it also appears he’s with another woman there. This is not right for you. I’m sorry to say that it looks like you will not be able to go through with the wedding. In time you will see this as a blessing.
You are a smart lady, and in your heart you know that with any online relationship, it would be very important for you to meet in person and get to know a man first before planning to marry him. You need to find out if you have real chemistry and you also need to know that he will live up to his promises. Also, you need to see how he treats you and your kids. Although a wildly romantic plan can be thrilling, it can also be potentially dangerous. And of course, you realize that the safety, well-being, and happiness of you and your children are what matter most.
The Universe is really looking out for you. I see a new love interest on the horizon for you, and it looks like when you meet, you’ll discover he’s living fairly close to you. He has dark hair and eyes and he makes pretty good money. Spirit will put you together, so you don’t have to worry about any of that. It looks like you meet him in the last quarter of this year. He has kids about the same age as yours. He will want to marry you and create a family with you. I’m happy to see good things coming your way, Nelly. You certainly deserve them.
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