Psychic Q&A: An Affair With a Married Man

Psychic Q&A: An Affair With a Married Man

The Three-Year Itch

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Dear Psychic Reed,

I have been in a very intense affair with a married man for three years. I have tried to end it several times but we end up back together. His wife recently caught us again. She threatened to throw him out but didn’t. I gave him an ultimatum: Leave her or I’m out for good. I feel I will back it up this time. I’ve asked him not to contact me anymore but he still tries. Am I going to be strong enough this time to let go of my affair with a married man? Will he be strong enough to let go as well?

Thank you for any insight you may have.

Psychic Reed ext. 5105 responds:

I’ve been a professional psychic for decades and in that time, my clients have taught me a few things. One of them is this: Whether you are having an affair with a married man or you are dating a single one, three years is critical mass for most women. Most women feel like they are hitting the wall and losing their minds when they are around the three-year mark and still don’t have the level of relationship progress they seek—and why wouldn’t they? That’s a long time. You are in that time period where everything could feel like the very last straw like you have absolutely had enough and are at the very end of your rope. However, this is not the end of the two of you.

Your man will continue to try to contact you because he really can’t help himself and by the time you read my response, you will already have talked with him. Having begun a new year and having cleared all the Mercury retrograde energy of December, the communication between the two of you will be flowing much better. He will be leaving his wife in early spring and they will begin the divorce process later in 2018. Though he will have taken significant steps in the spring, you will still have bouts of the three-year-critical-mass, I-can’t-take-another-moment-of-this feeling from time to time. It will pass and the relationship you will gain in the future will be worth it, as what began as an affair with a married man will slowly grow into the full soulmate union you know it to be.

You will end up getting through this together.


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