A Change in Thinking

Last night I got a frantic call from a friend who’s been down the past few months. She’s been having issues many can relate to – she’s been dating around but hasn’t really found a good match for any kind of substantial relationship. Lately, she’s had a string of men that she goes to bed with on the first date. In her call she asked me point blank if that was interfering with her ability to find someone. Now, in my opinion, to each his own. If you can do that and feel OK about it then awesome. But clearly she wasn’t feeling good about it. I pointed her to a quote by Albert Einstein I came across recently when I was reading about mindfulness:

“Problems cannot be solved by thinking within the framework in which they were created.”

They don’t consider Einstein to be the smartest man in history for nothing! She didn’t end up listening to me last night, but I think I gave good advice!

19 thoughts on “A Change in Thinking

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  4. Chloe

    To encourage self-respect, discernment, and protection, is to sow seeds of wholesomeness. Poor little soul who is frantically looking to complete oneself with anyone who comes along is indeed lost.
    Mothers–please teach your children to sacrifice immediate wants by disciplining YOURSELVES! Do not give into their every whining demand! Teach them about suffering for long-term results and resolving disputes. KEEP YOUR MARRIAGES TOGETHER. For the children’s sake–give them goals and chores, and teach them responsibility by honoring your own vows. Let them do their OWN homework–you did yours.
    The world is falling apart–why? Because individuals are losing the grasp on integrity, discipline, and standards of behavior. Males:become MEN. Take care of your families, teach your sons to be men, not wimps. Females: respect yourselves, educate yourselves, become respectable ladies, learn confidence by establishing personal goals. Do not blame others for your lack. Pick up the ball and run with it now. Use your BRAIN. If one person learns from this, May God Bless You. Love, Chloe

  5. Paisley Platypus

    Doesn’t seem she is thinking at all. I know, I was her once. Seems she is seeking a feeling. She needs to ask herself what feeling is she seeking and determine how to go about finding that feeling in a more meaningful way.

  6. Abigail Ext 9570

    Hi Miss Kyrstal,
    Its important for all of us to remember and even us Psychics need to treat ourselves good. Sometimes we need time to reflect give ourselves permission to not do anything and if what we have done in the past keeps getting the same results as stated in this article change it, get a different result. A day can change lives literally.

  7. Psychic Jacqueline x9472

    Love the article, I could not agree with Einstein more, I think the greatest hurdle in life is realizing that perhaps change is in order, and then having the courage to move through the fear that holds us up…. Abigail your poem is Beautiful… Hearts Hugs and Blessings…. Psychic Jacqueline x9472

  8. Abigail 9570

    You are most welcome sometimes it just takes a look at something removed away from you to realize you can make changes too. Like seeing the forest through the tree’s….in a metaphoric way.

  9. prayinghands

    Astro Surfer
    When we keep repeating the same pattern over and over again and nothing changes. We all need to look inside ourselves. Change for some can be challenging. But when we begin we are transforming. Like the caterpiller coming out of it’s cacoon. We emerge into a beautiful butterfly. We are new again. Ready for new beginnings and enough room to spreed our wings and fly in a new direction. I call this the cacoon stage. Darkness unable to see yet beyond our true inner selves. Transformation isn’t easy for anyone. But Karma sometimes takes hold beyond our control and we are forced to transform. Through hardships or our own free will. Either way time changes everything.

  10. Phillip# 9485

    You are very wise Maryanne. I absolutely agree with you. Just change one little thing. At the very least it will give you a shifted perspective, new information. At the most it can change everything.

  11. Fran

    Dear Abigail ~
    This is such a BEAUTIFUL, WONDERFUL poem!! I have two daughters, ages 15 and 12, and I’m going to print this out for them. I’m also going to show it to my 19 year old son.
    Thank you for sharing it with us.

  12. Abigail Ext 9570

    ————–are like apples——
    ———-on trees. The best ones—–
    ——–are at the top of the tree.—–
    ——The boys don’t want to reach—
    —–for the good ones because they–
    —are afraid of falling and getting hurt.-
    —-Instead, they get the rotten apples-
    —from the ground that aren’t as good,
    —but easy. So the apples up top think
    —something’s wrong w/ them when in
    —-reality they’re amazing. They just–
    ——have to wait for the right boy to
    ——- come along. the one who’s-
    ————– brave enough to—–
    ——————climb all———
    ——————the way——–
    —————–to the top——–
    —————-of the tree.———

  13. Psychic - Reed - x 5105

    That is awesome advice!
    It’s one of the many reasons that a psychic can help. We are able to see the issues from different angles and see the potential outcomes. We can help callers to see past the framework in which the problem was created so that the caller can get on with living a healthy life.

  14. Psychic Maryanne Ext. 9146

    It seems Einstein’s quote is the elegant way of saying if we keep doing what we’ve always done we will keep getting the same result.
    I’m sure your advice was excellent-if we are not comfortable with our actions or their results, it’s definitely time to change our actions. That’s always challenging-our comfort zone is to keep doing what we have are familiar with. Changing our actions, even slightly, is taking the next step on our Karmic wheel and is always freeing, empowering, and very exciting as we see paths open to us.


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