She Won’t Marry the Bad Boy
Are Hot Sex and Relationship Sex Mutually Exclusive?
While the sex factor is an important part of any romantic relationship, many women say they didn’t marry their best sex partner, at least according to a recent iVillage.com survey. While the women surveyed said they were quite content with the sex in their current relationship, they admitted it just wasn’t the hottest sex they’ve ever had, and in fact, most were perfectly content to get more sleep or read a book in lieu of sex.
So What Makes Hot Sex the Best Sex?
If most women were to review their best sex moments throughout life, it wouldn’t be a surprise to find that friends-with-benefits sex, sex performed in non-traditional settings (like the conference room table at work) and sex with a “bad boy” would all rate at the top of their list of best sex encounters. Hot sex is often sex we have that has no ties, no strings and no attachments. We can be as naughty as we want to be with no judgments and no repercussions (hopefully). It’s the danger factor that elicits that excitable feeling you get when you know you’re doing something a little wild and crazy. It’s a rush of emotions most likely fueled by pheromones. Most girls don’t marry the bad boys of their past, and that is probably why women don’t marry their best sex partners.
Is Marriage the End of Hot, Steamy Sex?
Due to the stresses associated with marriage and parenthood, a couple’s sex life may often be the first to suffer. It takes more energy to get excited about sex after dealing with the increasing responsibilities that come with relationships, families, jobs, etc., than it did when none of those responsibilities existed. Learn to balance a healthy sex life with all your responsibilities. Psychic Julia ext. 9131. can help!
Maybe the reason women don’t marry their best sex partners is because those partners were never husband/family material to begin with. The irresponsible, taboo or unavailable bad boy is probably not the one that’s going to measure up when a women decides she wants a family and some emotional and financial stability. There are some girls, however, who would love to pin down that hard-to-get sex machine and turn him into husband material, but that approach often fails miserably.
“Love with sex can send you both beyond the stars.” – Psychic Alison ext. 9885
By the time women have had their fill of sexual adventures and they’re ready to move on to concentrate on family and careers, they seem to be content overall with a sex life that’s less taboo and more comfortable. And while comfortable may feel good, there’s no reason not to shake it up a little once in a while. Raising the mercury level on the hotness meter isn’t impossible, and some women may even find that it takes less effort than originally thought while also reviving a sexual spark that they thought was long gone. In doing so, some women might find that they actually did marry their best sex partner after all.