Overcoming Heartbreak and Moving On
When is it going to happen for me?
Are there any good guys/girls out there?
I just can’t overcome this heartbreak!
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I’m never going to be able to trust again!
How can I move on?
Why does this keep happening to me?
These are such wonderful questions and I have asked myself the same questions many a time. As a Medium/Psychic/Spiritual Guide, I often wonder as to the appropriate answers. We are all so unique in our personalities, yet so similar. We all want to love and be loved unconditionally and that is where we are the same. We all want to overcome the heartbreak!
Sometimes They Just Leave You
A short while ago a young man of 19 asked me “What did I do wrong”? My answer: “Nothing. You are perfect exactly the way you are.” His linear brain wanted to know why she caused his heartbreak. He said things were going good and then one day she blew up at him and disappeared. I offered him a perspective that allowed him to relax and enjoy his journey into the mysteries of life and romance. Here goes….
Ask Yourself These Questions
Ponder this for just a moment: What if Divine Spirit/God/the Universe has bigger plans for us than we ourselves could ever imagine? What if all that time we spend wondering about what we did wrong or how we are not good enough keeps us from getting together with the right person? What if every person that comes into our lives is an opportunity for us to learn and grow, so that we can truly chose the person that matches us more completely? What if each time a relationship goes astray (each time we experience a heartbreak) we can look forward to moving closer to the man/woman of our dreams?
Move Enthusiastically Towards What You Want
Isn’t it better to move enthusiastically towards what you really want, instead of holding on to the pain and shame of a heartbreak? Many a time I have looked back at my life and wondered why I spent so much time in guilt or shame or pain, when I could have been having so much more fun moving towards what I really wanted. I remember saying, “Well, I don’t know what I want.” But really, I was just denying myself and staying in pain. My teacher would say, “Divine Spirit wants to give to you. Say yes!”
When it comes right down to it, we have all experienced heartbreak and perhaps if we go back in time, we can see patterns of betrayal, abandonment, disappointment, dishonesty, shame, etc.
How to Heal Yourself
So what can we do to heal our wounded selves? I use this for myself and I have offered this to my clients. It’s called, “Ho’oponopono” and it’s an ancestral Hawaiian chant:
“I’m so sorry. I love you. Please forgive me. I thank you.”
These are powerful words that you can chant daily. Many of you have heard me sing them to you on the line. If you do this consistently for a month (or longer if you like) you will see a change in how and who you attract into your life. It will help you heal your heartbreak. It’s not much fun getting together with a wounded soul, so take this challenge. I dare you! Here’s to the mystery of romance!
With love always,
Serafina ext. 6327