Are You One of These Romantic Offenders?
While there’s really no such thing as the perfect match, there are some red flags to watch for when you’re contemplating a relationship with someone. Remember that in the beginning most folks are on their best behavior, so if they are doing things now that cause your eyebrow to raise, you may just want to cut and run!
Independence is the key to every healthy relationship, and while it’s great to be able to lean on one another during the really tough times, relying on your partner’s strength because you don’t have enough of your own will only tear the relationship apart. This red flag may come in the form of constant manifestations of insecurity in themselves or your relationship, or in a clinginess that never seems to diminish. If you need tips for dealing with a clingy partner, then give Psychic Rianne ext. 9423 a call!
A little natural flirtation is healthy and harmless, but if he is watching each ‘cute catch’ walk into the room you may want to find someone more dedicated to you. Some people simply decide that attention from a stranger is more important than public intimacy shared with their romantic partner. This is disrespectful and rude and you’ll be better off leaving them to the feeding trough in the sea of single people.
Being money conscious is generally a great quality to have, but living a life akin to that of Scrooge is a nightmare. Life is meant to be enjoyed, not put on hold indefinitely for the sake of saving a penny. If your date just can’t seem to justify spending a little and always complains whenever he needs to pitch in a buck, it’s best to hightail it out of there before you find yourself in a penny-pinching prison.
“Being honest with ourselves about our own relationship with money allows us to stand back and gain more clarity when it comes to money issues with our partner.” – Psychic Quinn ext. 5484
Having the ability to go with the flow of life and to allow things to happen organically (in and out of a relationship) is a challenging but necessary component for a happy, healthy life. If your date is always trying to plan out every move you make (both as a couple as well as individually), it’s best to get out before your life no longer feels like your own.
Working towards anything longer-term means being open to love and willing to do the work and make requisite sacrifices. If your date consistently keeps a distance from you and any commitments you attempt to make as things progress, there’s a good chance you are wasting your time.
Just as there are people with commitment fears, there are those who seem to want a commitment immediately. Without proper time for two people to develop intimacy and truly get to know one another, any quick form of attachment is usually a sign of a codependent person. Go back to the beginning of this article if you need more convincing about why you should stay away from this one! They want to spend all their time with you and you’re flattered, but is this an indication of something more? Psychic Charlie ext. 5277 has the answer!