Loving That Wonderful, Independent Soulmate!
Part of our human experience is the search for that special person to share the journey with! We are all different souls with different stories and we connect in different ways, especially in soulmate relationships.
Most of us find that our soulmate has very similar needs to us, but every once in a while, we connect to someone who is so special to us that we just can’t let go, even if they seem to have totally different relationship needs than us! Almost always when this situation arises the reason is that we have connected with a very old soul who is very independent. Here’s what you need to know about your independent soulmate.
Independent soulmates are very self-sufficient. These ladies and gentlemen are typically very focused on their careers and deal better with long- distance relationships that most other soulmates.
Extremely passionate in relationships, these soulmates light our fire in a hurry! The sex is usually extremely good, in fact, they even know how to make sexy texting exciting! They have an aura of mystery to them that intrigues and excites us. They are never clingy or needy and usually very open to letting us have some breathing room when we need it.
However, some of these same personality traits can make them frustrating in a relationship. They tend to be really attentive for short periods of time, and then suddenly absent. They may call every day for a week, then cut communication off with no explanation. Also, these soulmates are extremely likely to back away from a relationship during times of work or family stress. They are possessive of their friends and family and may not be willing to introduce you to them.
One of the hardest things to understand about them is how they can get angry and irritated when we try to do simple things like ask for more communication or closeness. For those of us who need more closeness, this behavior can drive us up the wall! We get anxious, frantic, angry and hurt because they won’t communicate with us and spend time with us. So what is really going on in the mind of your independent soulmate?
Here is the rub: All of these things are actually just part of who these soulmates are. They need to be independent. They trust more in their own strength when they are stressed out. Many of them are not ready to be in committed relationships. Some are always going to put their job ahead of romance.
But all those things aside, the truth is that they love and cherish us just as much as we love and cherish them. They just speak a different language of love. Yes, an independent soulmates may need more time alone than you or I, but rest assured that even when they are away, you are in their thoughts and in their heart.
A Little Advice
So how can we flourish in relationships with these soulmates? Our angels and guides have several words of advice:
First, have a full and joyful life. Independent soulmates feel much more secure with partners who have something in their lives besides their relationship. Invest time in your passions and dreams and build friendships that you can rely on when your lover needs space.
Second, stand your ground on important issues. If you need a certain amount of communication, you should clearly state than and expect it to be complied with. If they can’t meet that need, then you and they will both know it is time to let go.
Lastly, always give them the benefit of the doubt. Almost never does their pulling away mean they have stopped caring. Think the best of them, because they will be back for more wonderful romance with you when they are refreshed and ready!