From Fling to Relationship
We all have our weak moments in life, and hookup choices probably rank right up there for many people. But what happens when you realize you want more from a guy than your originally intended hookups? Your next moves are crucial if you want to have a future with him, so before you take another step, read on! Want to know if he wants something serious with you? Alison ext. 9885 has the answers you’re looking for.
Make it About More Than the Sex
Invite him out for lunch, a bike ride or anything that involves connecting on a non-sexual level. Relationships are about enjoying one another in diverse and interesting ways, so engage him on a variety of levels! You want him to see you as more than just a fling, so work on growing a friendship.
Step Up the Class
Just because you’ve done the dirty deed doesn’t mean you can’t splash some class back into your dance. Dressing more conservatively and projecting more sensuality rather than sexuality can go a long way towards him seeing you in a new and more respectable light, a.k.a. girlfriend material.
Go Ahead, Play a Little Hard to Get
So the “fun is in the chase” mentality which men seem to love doesn’t actually have to be off the table if you play your cards right. If you are still spending time together and doing things other than having sex, this means he’s interested in you romantically, and you may have the opportunity to steer things in a different direction. You have reset the “chase” button if sex is off the table and he still wants to spend time with you.
“Love with sex can send you both beyond the stars…” – Psychic Alison ext. 9885
No Pushing or Clinging
Men typically hate feeling pressured to date so just allow your time together to speak for itself in the beginning. If you’re enjoying one another and becoming closer, his feelings will grow organically, and then you can decide what you two will do about it. The same goes for needy, clingy behavior. Be confident and independent, give him space and let him do more of the work; he’ll respect you more for it and it will give the two of you a better shot at working out in the long run! You call it love, but he thinks you’re clingy. If you don’t know the difference, chat with Shauna ext. 9010.