It’s that time of year again where we recall our school days and just naturally think more academically. Just because you’re out of school, doesn’t mean that learning needs to cease… and what better subject to take up this fall than the Art of Pleasure?
Translation: it’s time to teach yourself a few new tricks about everyone’s favorite subject – sex. Luckily, there’s plenty of reading material on the subject! So head on down to your local book shop, or hop online and do the ordering in private from your desktop. The sexual secrets contained in these recommended reads will be sure to freshen up your romantic repertoire. Whether you play teacher or student is solely up to you!!
Novice or newbie
Okay, so the title, The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Sex, probably doesn’t do a lot to assuage your embarrassment about seeking out a little help in the doing it department. However, inside this book by sexpert Sari Locker, what you’ll find is a comprehensive approach to getting more comfortable with your own sexuality and finding the sexual partner who is right for you. Starting by helping readers understand how their backgrounds may be inhibiting their sexual pleasure, Locker explains how to get over almost any obstacle to achieve total satisfaction – with and without a mate!
Unlike a lot of “educational texts” The Complete Idiot’s Guide is a modern book for modern times. Rather than offering staid advice that relies upon old-fashioned gender roles or suppositions, Locker has a pulse on today’s sexual climate. Namely, she knows that women can (and do) enjoy pleasure just as much as men – it’s the details that make the difference.
Let’s face it. Everyone is intrigued by Tantra. Of course that’s probably just because we all know it has something to do with better, more connected sex and longer lasting orgasms, but there’s so much more to it than that, according to Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the 21st Century by Barbara Carrellas and Annie Sprinkle.
This text begins by helping us connect to ourselves more deeply, so we can then connect more deeply with each other. And, the authors make this ancient art approachable, modern and fun on top of it.
If you’re interested in fusing all the areas of your life to be happier, more balanced, emotionally integrated and have better sex, then this one’s for you!
Committed love may be what we’re all after, but the inevitable downside to a long-term pairing untended is that the sex can get stale. If you’ve fallen into this all too common connubial conundrum, look no further than Alison Tyler’s helpful text Never Have the Same Sex Twice. Not only does Tyler offer sex tips for “kinky, extreme, varied sex – in a monogamous relationship,” she includes her own erotic stories with each saucy tidbit, making your efforts less intimidating, and possibly, turning you on in the process.
Bonus: never having the same sex twice means you’re apt to have to get pretty creative! Tyler’s tips include everything from old standards to total kink, making this a great read no matter where your sexual tastes lie. Who knows, you may even find yourself interested in braving uncharted waters once you get started… we hope so.
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