Did Your Help, Love and Care Turn Him Into an Arrogant Man?
As a psychic who has given readings to thousands of people, I have discovered that many women are experiencing the same issue: the arrogant man. I often hear some version of this statement: “I loved and helped him so much to get on his feet and now he has turned arrogant/cocky and even hostile towards me.” Although each situation is unique, I find a commonality in the circumstances.
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So what is happening here? Well, let us first realize that guys just don’t like dealing with emotions and especially the feeling of being down and out. When a woman finds a man in such circumstance, she finds him mostly humble and lovable and she will let herself fall in love with him. She listens to his hardship story, feels compassion and thinks: “I am going to give you all the things you are lacking.”
Arrogant Man, Forgetful Man
Then what happens? In his new life he will act as if he has no need for the one who has done so much for that pathetic person he refuses to remember he once was. He will pretend he always had it together and never was down and out. He starts acting coldly and basically pulls away from the woman who has been such a support to him. He may even act as if he does not need her. He feels ready to be a player. He starts texting other women. Instead of being a steady companion he becomes more of an occasional visitor who stops by for whatever he needs and then leaves again. He’s become an arrogant man.
Spoiling Leads to Arrogance
If a woman finds herself in this situation, the biggest mistake for her to make is to believe that she did something wrong and that is why he wanders off with other women or abandons her. The only thing she did wrong was to give too much and believe spoiling her man was going to make him appreciate her. Too much giving leads to an unearned sense of success that feeds a growing attitude of arrogance. So what is arrogance? Perhaps it could be described as pretending to be bigger and better then the truth of who you are. When someone doesn’t earn their success, no matter how great or small, it is very easy for them to become arrogant.
So, what is a girl to do? The advice oddly enough is for you to do less. Let your man stay humble and work his way up to being proud of his actual accomplishments instead of bragging about how easy it was to get some woman (or women) to do it all for him. Do not be so quick to rush to the rescue. Be a good listener but not an enabler or fixer. Let him figure it out so he can earn the self-respect and true confidence he needs. If you don’t spoil him, his genuine sense of self will make him a better person to be with.