Are They Your Soulmate? It’s Time to Look at the Signs…
To be or not to be? This is the question you’ll ask yourself in every relationship you will ever have. The key to finding the answer is understanding how you (and those around you) perceive the relationship. Although you can’t always count on practical thinking when it comes to relationships, there are some signs to know if they’re your soulmate.
1. You Get to be the Real You
Relationships that are kept on a short leash are trouble waiting to happen. You should not have to be someone you’re not in order to keep your partner happy. A relationship with a soulmate should be relatively easy and effortless—almost to the point of being boring. Slightly boring is always better than the up-and-down-roller-coaster type of relationships.
2. You Don’t Need to be Entertained all the Time
We’ve all been in the kind of relationship that has more than just the occasional uncomfortable silence. This is because there is nothing holding your relationship together except fun times, good jokes and quirky commentary. The moment that you are left with the mundane reality of your relationship, you feel cold and sad. A relationship that is meant-to-be does not need to be entertaining all the time. Having each other should be enough.
3. Their Happiness is Just as Important as Your Own
Being in a relationship can lead to selfish actions if you are mostly in love with what the other person is giving you. When you think about how your partner’s life can be improved just as much as you think about improving your own, that’s how you know what you feel for them is true love.
“If you are not in a relationship with someone, then love yourself.” – Psychic Fiona ext. 5178
4. They’re Not Perfect, but They’re What You Need
Some people call it settling, while others say it is understanding the reality of love, and taking the extra effort to ensure your own happiness. You will never find the perfect partner, and your soulmate may not make you see fireworks each and every night. The important thing is that they are close enough to being what you need.
5. Your Loved Ones Love Them
Sure, you can’t always count on friends and family to tell you when a relationship is good for you. However, they can see you from a side that you can’t. Love can make a person blind in many ways, but it rarely has that effect on the people around you. If other people see that someone is making you a better person, that is always a good sign.
6. You Understand the Importance of Compromise
Most short-term relationships are self-centered. In a sense, they need to be, as they are basically designed to be entertaining, until the moment they stop being that, and then they are over. When you find a partner who is important enough to you, that you are willing to sacrifice your needs in order to find a solution that meets you both halfway, it is time to take notice.
7. It is Easy to Laugh with Them
It has been said a thousand times, that laughter is one of the greatest gifts you can give your partner. When you have found your soulmate, laughter has less to do with how funny your jokes are, and more to do with just feeling good, and being able to open up, be yourself, and see life’s little pleasures for what they are.
8. It Should be Work, But Work You’re Happy to Do
Relationships take a lot of work—even the good ones. But you have to be up for doing the work, and enjoy doing it. If you have emotionally checked out of your relationship or are feeling lazy about it, you may not be with your soulmate. Soulmates recognize that’s there’s work to be done, and they’re happy to do it.
Is your soulmate right around the corner? Psychic Prinny ext. 5134 has the answer.