What Comes Across to a Man as Truly Sexy?
Are you wondering if you fit the bill as sexy in a man’s eyes? Do you constantly attempt to make yourself appear like a sex goddess? Being sexy isn’t always the way we think it is. Sure, attractive people that saunter into a room grinning from ear to ear, dressed to the nines, and who work out in the gym every day may be considered sexy, while the book worm with her nose in the latest Dan Brown novel may also appear sexy. But in a man’s eyes there’s more to sexy than the way you do your make up or what brand name you are wearing. Let’s take a look at six “sexy” traits that men really pay attention to in a woman.
#1 Miss Approachable
This woman is sexy because while she may not be outstandingly beautiful and have men flocking around her, she has her own charming aura. It’s not that she isn’t pretty, just that she’s more casual with the way she carries herself and the way she dresses. This makes it easier for a man to approach her, as men often steer away from approaching super model types for fear of intimidation or rejection. The casual girl might reject men as well, but she’s still more approachable.
#2 The Girl Next Door
This woman knows how to be one of the guys, clown around, play video games and hold her own in a paintball fight, but she always reminds her male counterparts that she is still a woman and is feminine in her own way. She has a cool personality and is open minded about most things. She radiates sex appeal.
#3 Drive On
A woman who enjoys sex and who has a high sex drive is sexy to men. It’s also sexy to men when a woman knows her body, how it works and how to enjoy herself in the bedroom.
#4 Clean and Fresh
A woman who takes care of herself—such as brushes her teeth, combs knots out of her hair, cleans her nails and performs other self-care tactics is sexy to a man. Men love a woman who takes the time to smell and look great, just not two hours of time before going out. Go figure.
#5 Confidence is Key
Women who hold their head up high and portray confidence are always sexy to a man. If a woman knows what she wants and makes plans to go for her goals, this is sexy too. Last but not least, a woman who shows confidence in the bedroom is a keeper to most men.
#6 If She Only Had a Brain…
A woman who uses her brain is sexy to a man. Smart women stay in relationships longer because they are valued for the intellectual conversation they can bring to the table. What man wants to hear about “all-things-girly” when he can speak to his gal about travels, world politics or foreign film debuts?