It’s Not Always About Sex
When was the last time you impressed a guy to the point that he practically fell over his remote control in order to open the door for you? While I can’t promise this will ever happen to you, I can give you five hints on what impresses men most about women, and they don’t all have to do with sex!
1. Make the First Move
Making the first move is a hit or miss for most men. By the time he has reached his thirties, he has just as many rejection scars as commemorative notches on his bedpost. Men don’t always have it easy in this department, as for each turn down he receives; he chalks it up as a failure to his ego. Over time, many men feel like sex is an obligation for their women, so it’s no wonder they are in such a hurry to get it over with. When a woman makes the first move, suddenly the world seems like a friendlier place. A world where trolls and fairies can live in harmony. There is nothing more impressive to a man, than a woman who initiates sex. Get more personalized advice, contact a psychic today!
“The best man, of course, is a guy who is responsible enough to be grounded, bold enough to take risks, and try something new.” – Psychic Cameron ext. 5412
2. Share Your Sexual Fantasies, and Ask to Fulfill His
Most men suffer from approval addiction in the bedroom. What this means, is that he is so afraid of being rejected for his sexual fantasies, he chooses not to share them. Instead, he goes into the undercover world of porn, which hurts you, embarrasses him, and ends up doing more harm than if he had just risked rejection in the first place. Men are impressed when a woman has an open mind to talk about her fantasies, thus opening him up to talk about his own. This doesn’t mean that you have to engage in everything he asks, but just listen, smile, and consider the possibilities.
3. Quit Fussing Over Your Flaws
Any guy who has been in a long-term relationship, probably knows just about every flaw on his woman’s body. Both men and women are insecure about themselves, but women are often more vocal about it. You may fuss over your flat butt, your fat one, or the fact that you can still wear a training bra, and have room leftover for a few dollops of potato salad. It is great that you feel comfortable enough to share your insecurities, but men are oblivious to this kind of stuff until you point it out. It is not the size of the imperfection that turns men off. It is the size of your insecurity. A guy who boasts to his friends that he would not date a woman over a size 15 has probably never met one who was confident enough to rock his world!
“It isn’t perfect, nor will it ever be, but it will be perfect for you.” – Psychic Lacy ext. 5494
4. Respect His Privacy
A guy can tell when a girl has been raked over the dating coals a few times too many, as every time his phone rings, her eyes dart to see the number. Whenever she is on his computer, she reads through a couple hundred of his emails. For every girl who has dug through his desk drawers looking for dirt, they have built up the expectation that women don’t trust him. Without trust, a man feels like he can’t be himself. Imagine if suddenly a woman comes into his life, and she offers him full pardon on all the wrongs that have been done to her by the guys before him. He’ll be more than impressed.
5. Be a Successful, Yet Vulnerable Woman
Successful women rarely open themselves to vulnerability. It is not in her nature to allow parts of her life to be without her control. This makes great sense on the business front. However, when it comes to relationships, it can be a fatal decision. Research suggests that intelligent, successful women are more likely to engage in affairs, get divorced, and take control over a less successful mate. Why? Because their business side has created a relationship based on their analysis of the relationship and its motives, rather than their own emotion and vulnerability. Men are impressed by confident, strong women, but they want to be the one guy who can melt away her tough exterior, to find a soft center where she still needs his care and support. You will never know love, until you allow yourself to become vulnerable enough to fear losing it.
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