The Wrong Love Signals
Dating can be exciting but it’s also super frustrating at times. When you go on date after date (or send message after message) and feel like you’re getting nowhere, it can be discouraging. If this happens for long enough, you may even get disillusioned with the whole process to the point where you feel like giving up entirely.
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But before you do, take a look at what you can control about the whole dating process—yourself. Remember that you have the power to create your own romantic reality. You can do that through the choices you make and the signals you send out too. By examining your dating vibes, you’ll be able to better see if you’re on the wrong track. And if you’re on the right track, you can certainly right your course. Here are four major signs that you’re sending out the wrong love signals.
1. Your Messages Go Unanswered
These days, many relationships start digitally through texting and apps like Tinder and Bumble. However, in order to get to the next step with someone, you have to meet in person. But if you can’t even get someone to answer your first message, you may want to evaluate what kind of love signals you’re sending out. Sarcasm, being too desperate, being too graphic—you name it—can turn people off. Even jokes may not resonate well with a total stranger who doesn’t know your sense of humor yet.
2. You Aren’t Connecting IRL
Maybe you do get that one-on-one, in-person time with a potential partner. But you just can’t seem to hold a conversation or find your groove together. Yes, it could be because the other person is boring or full of themselves. However, it could also be that you’re not giving the person the opportunity to open up or feel comfortable. Before placing the blame on them, examine the places you’re meeting at (a loud bar where you can’t really talk may not be ideal) and the amount of talking you’re doing versus how much you’re listening. This isn’t to say that you’re doing something wrong, but it’s certainly important to make sure that you’re giving the person the opportunity to try to connect with you.
3. You Don’t Get (or Want) a Second Date
Maybe you’re having fun dating and you enjoy spending time with people, but you never get asked out again for date number two. Or, maybe you don’t really like anyone you meet and you don’t want to see them again. In this case, you may want to ask yourself if you’re putting out any red-flag vibes that are keeping romance away. Or, you might need to see if you’re choosing the wrong-for-you types of people (like ones who won’t commit and who don’t share your interests). If you’re putting out a signal that you want something casual but you really want a committed relationship, you’re never going to get what you want.
4. You Constantly Feel Disappointed About Your Romantic Prospects
It’s normal to feel bummed while dating every now and again. You may have had an amazing conversation with someone online only to feel less enthused about them in person. But if you constantly feel let down, you may want to look at the vibe you’re putting out and see how that may be affecting what you get in return. You may have really high expectations and your dates may feel too much pressure to meet them, for instance. Or, you may be holding back for fear of getting hurt, so you never really make it to that deeper level with anyone. Understand how you may be limiting yourself and how that could affect the vibe you’re sending to others.
When it comes to dating, you need to put yourself out there. You also need to be honest about who you are and what you’re looking for. Finding someone good isn’t easy, but if you send out the wrong love signals, you’re making it a lot harder than it needs to be.
Being in love is a life experience that everyone deserves. Whether you’re looking for your soulmate or wondering how to keep the romantic fires burning, a love psychic can help. They want to see you happy and a psychic love reading is all you need to find or keep the love that is meant for you.
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