When is Playing Hard to Get Acceptable?
Ah, the thrill of the chase. Most of us understand the dating ploy of making him or her work for it, leaving a little mystery, and keeping them guessing. In this regard, playing a little hard to get in the dating game can have distinct advantages. Just make sure you’re making the right moves for the right reasons, or your elusive approach may just make you seem unavailable and undateable. Let’s look at a few scenarios where playing hard to get will have him playing right into your hands.
Looking for a Little Foreplay
If you know what you want, and it’s a simple case of sexual attraction, playing hard to get can be a creative type of foreplay for the both of you. This form of teasing increases excitement and enhances mutual desire as long as you both are clear about your mutual needs!
Looking for Something More Long-Term
The hard to get approach can be appealing to women looking for a guy who is willing to work a little for the prize. While playing hard to get can increase foreplay between partners simply looking for sex, you can also achieve an opposite, more enduring-type of relationship (aka the long-term relationship) by using elements of this technique towards the beginning of his “courting.” If all you want is sex, keeping it simple and direct will probably bring you faster to the goal in sight. On the other hand, if you are looking for something with more depth, this can be a great way to weed out the guy who isn’t interested enough to stick with it for the long haul.
“Relationships are hard. To say they aren’t is a lie, but the best things in life are the ones we have to work at constantly, and still enjoy.” – Lacy ext. 5494
Weeding Out “The Player”
By making him work for it, it will quickly become clear whether he is just looking for a good time, or for you. If he’s known around town as Mr. Romeo and he’s suddenly developed an interest in you, make him prove it. You’ll soon see whether he has a sincere interest in you by how willing he is to put forth the time and energy into wooing you. If his attraction lies strictly in landing the next gal, at your first real relationship challenge, he’ll cut his losses and run to the next easy mark, leaving you free to pursue greener pastures.
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