She Worries It’s too Late
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I’m 48 years old and a stay-at-home mom with career dreams, but I fear it’s too late. My oldest child is 28, my second child is about to graduate from high school, and my third child is 10 years old. I’m not happy in my life and I feel like I’ve lost my way. With my youngest becoming a teenager in a few years, I’m thinking about the next phase of my life. I need to do something before it’s too late!
I’d like to go to culinary school and become a chef, but I’m not sure my cooking is good enough. Is this the right path for me to pursue? Will I be able to handle it with my third child still at home? I worry it‘s too late!
Psychic Cameron ext. 5412 responds:
Thank you for your wonderful question and for sharing your experience here. I think you speak for a lot of people when you say, “I’m thinking about the next phase of my life. I need to do something before it’s too late.” Many clients I read for each month ask me about their future and use almost the exact same words! Knowing our purpose and living our dreams is something that is important to all of us, at any time in our lives.
There is no question that you are going through a major transition period in your home. While your initial reaction may be to see this as a source of some anxiety, it’s also a wonderful opportunity to examine your life, and ask yourself, “What gives me a feeling of joy and what makes me happy?”
One of the first cards in your reading is the Page of Cups. This is next to the Ace of Swords which is upside down. These cards inform me that you’re ready to embark on your new journey and that opportunity awaits. However, you don’t know how to move forward or which action to take, and that leaves you feeling overwhelmed—the Ten of Wands. You may fear—the Ace of Coins reversed—that there isn’t enough money or support for you to make your dream come true.
Lisa, you have been unhappy and you feel stuck, but I know this feeling will change almost immediately when you take action. The temptation, because you are deeply conflicted, is to wait until your 10-year-old graduates from high school in about seven or eight years. But that means more years of being unhappy, not as a parent, but as a chef. I’m sure you know the expression: How old will you be in three years if you don’t follow your dream? The answer is, you’ll be the same age you’ll be in three years if you do! In other words, how would you rather spend your time, and what matters most to you?
I am being shown that your youngest will be thrilled to see you go back to school, doing something that makes you happy. Sometimes we feel guilty that we are abandoning those we love when we choose something for ourselves. But remember that you are modeling for your child how important it is to express one’s creativity—to dream big like Mom!
You’ve written, “I’m not sure my cooking is good enough,” and my guides respond, “Tell her, of course, it’s not good enough YET. That’s why she’s going to cooking school!” The whole point is that you are there to learn! I can see that, despite your fears, you have a natural talent, and if you are willing to take the steps, you will be very successful—maybe even one day starting your own business. My cards also reveal that lately you’ve been thinking a lot about purpose, about your life, what inspires you, and every time you concentrate on cooking school, you feel an inner happiness and warmth. It’s time to trust that feeling and act on it.
My advice to you is to begin by surrendering to the process completely. This means saying to Spirit and to yourself, “I’m willing to let go. I don’t have all the answers but I can take action. I am ready to begin this phase of my life.” And then, Lisa, take one small action. Tell someone you love and trust that you’re planning to go to cooking school. Watch some videos online and begin to research the process. And at some point, when you are ready, call the school and see if you can get an appointment to take a tour.
You have been a healer, a guide, and a support to others. Now it’s your turn to enjoy yourself. When I focus on your future, I see the next graduate in your family and it’s not your youngest—it’s you!
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