Your 3-Part Plan to Manifesting Love

Your 3-Part Plan for Manifesting Love | California Psychics

The Search for Love

Finding love is frustrating. We search and search, looking here and there, and double-checking places we’ve already checked three or four times. It can be comforting to return to our regular stomping grounds and stick with our normal habits but getting grounded in your intentions is the key to manifesting love.

Manifesting Love in Three Parts

There are three parts to manifesting love: thought, word, and deed. Thinking about what you desire is obviously the first part. Imagine the loving relationship you want and visualize your soulmate so that you are clearly communicating with Spirit. Word means saying it out loud and declaring your desires to the Universe. Deed is doing something about it, which in this case, means taking action. An excellent way to perform all three tasks with one action is to write down a description of your perfect partner or relationship. It is quick and a very effective way to help love find you!

Part 1- Create a List

Start by creating a list of the traits you want your ideal mate to have. Think only in adjectives, (strong, independent, elegant, etc.), and brainstorm or write them down in a neat list—whatever method best suits you and your hopes. It’s okay to shoot for the moon and write down exactly what you want. Describe what you intend to attract and don’t waste time being humble. If money is important to you, ask for someone who has it. You should also consider their personality, family relationships, where they live, and if they have children from a previous relationship. The Universe needs details, so provide as many as you can. If you are having a hard time coming up with something, just think about what you don’t want in a partner and write down the opposite of that.

Something else to consider when making this list is how this future partner is going to make you feel when you finally meet them. The physical aspects and personal details are important, but they pale in comparison to the feelings you are going to experience when you spend time with your partner. If you long for security in this relationship, write it down. Or, if what you want most is that warm, fuzzy, contented feeling that true love provides, write it down, big and bold so that the Universe can easily get the details.

Part 2 – Read Your List Out Loud

When you feel like you’ve written down as much as you can (you can always add to it later), read your list out loud. This is the most crucial part of the manifestation process because the Universe needs to hear you say it. So, say it, sing it, yell it—whatever you need to do to know in your heart that the Universe has heard your desires.

Not only will speaking your intentions out loud help the Universe hear you, but it will help you. A 2005 study performed by British psychologists (Lavie, N. 2005, February. Distracted and confused?: selected attention under load. Trends in Cognitive Science, 9(2).) found that when you say things out loud, you are making them your top priorities in your mind. So, when you read your list of desires in a partner out loud, you will be drawn to people who remind you of that list when you go out rather than to the people you have been drawn to in the past.

Part 3 – Take Action

When you’re finished, roll up your list like you would a scroll and tie a pink ribbon, thread, or string around it. Pink is the color of love. Then go into your bedroom and place your list in the right-hand corner, farthest from the bedroom door. In feng shui this is called your partnership gua.

Use Colors to Draw in Love

Wearing colors like pink or red will send out a signal to the Universe that you’re ready for your soulmate to arrive. In feng shui, pink and red are the colors of love, so surrounding yourself with either or both colors will help to align your inner and outer life with your desires.

Any shade will suffice, and it doesn’t have to show. You could wear pink or red clothes, jewelry, lingerie, or pajamas. Wearing pink or red sends subtle waves of receptivity out into the world through your aura and will help you find the keys to true love. If you are honest with the Universe, it will give you exactly what you want in love; however, if wearing pink or red is not your style, you could decorate your home with pink and flowers and other décor, such as pillows, blankets, and wall hangings. You can also carry a love crystal such as rose quartz crystal or ruby in your purse or pocket or keep one near your bed to encourage love to find you.

Trust the Universe

The search for love can be disappointing, and it’s easy to get discouraged after multiple dead ends. But there is more than enough love in the world for everyone; you just have to be open to it. Trust that the Universe has your back when you start manifesting the love that you desire, it won’t let you down.

Being in love is a life experience that everyone deserves. Whether you’re looking for your soulmate or wondering how to keep the romantic fires burning in your relationship, a love psychic can help. They want to see you happy and a psychic love reading is all you need to find or keep the love that is meant for you.

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9 thoughts on “Your 3-Part Plan to Manifesting Love


    I have been married 15 yrs. to an alcholic and have tried everything possible to make him understand he needs help & should join AA . I realize I cannot do if for him he needs to help himself and want to do it for himself & no one else. I went to several Alanon meeting to try to help and understand I not only need to help him but I need to care for my own well being! That is where it is at this stage – it is costing me my health, weight loss and has put me into a deep depression where I had to seek Anti depressant medication. I will be 74 yrs. old this Yr. & he will be 75 – have been married 14yrs. 5 mos. – and the drinking has increased each yr. His friends tell me, he has a drinking problem and my answer to them is, I realize & live with it and tell him everyday he needs to seek help – maybe you coming from a friend will help him to realize he needs to make the next step to seek the long overdue help. He was married prev. for 8 yrs. – she died of cancer, however she as well had the same problem trying to make him realize he needs to help himself! Both his deceased wife and I walked into it both not realizing just how addicted he is and the lack of caring. I find out after a short time being married the whole family has this problem (both his parents now deceased) and the other 2 siblings are in the same boat as he is – IN LOVE WITH THE BOTTLE! I am going to be 74 yrs old – how does one start over at this age. I had no intension of marrying this man when I first met him through a friend and after 6 yrs. I thought it would work out! Now when I listen to the stories of the deceased wifes friends – I am walking in her shoes and if I keep this up, I too will be in the grave beside her. (I am X 2 a Cancer survivor – so God must have a reason for keeping me on this earth! I had the same cancer as his deceased wife!) I am tired, and not in the best of health – where do I start from here? At my age, what should I be looking at – divorce, simply move out to have the peace of mind and restore my health, or seek a lawyer and have him move out?
    We own our home and he has a cottage that I call the ‘FLOP HOUSE” as it is where he and ALL his DRINKING Buddies gather every wk. end and all their spare time. He has one who I call his “SIGNIFICANT OTHER” – as he has keys to the cottage, our home and lives out there all summer long to also support his drinking habit! These two can not function without each other & I tell my husband this all the time. It was April, snow on the ground and he is anxious to go out to open the cottage so that they have their escape until the snow falls in October! It gives me a creepy feeling that maybe there is more there than I know! Like they say the “the wife is the last to know” This man is totally useless around the house and yard – he has hired someone to cut & maintain the grass as I once did it all. Recently I injured my back topping up the flower beds with 18 bags of black top soil – now I can hardly walk or move. Does this bother him – No! Does he offer to help around the house knowing I can hardly move – No! He lays on the Sofa in his Recreation room, & watches two Television Sets with Sports Only.
    He hides his Scotch and drinks till he passes out, as he knows when I find the bottle, it is poured down the drain. Have emptied them and refilled with water only and he just keeps on buying another bottle and tries hiding it in another place. Now am finding it in the Garage and buried in box of books – the list goes on…. He is an educated man, and well know amoung those in his profession. I have cancelled all dining out with our friends as I am embrassed to be with him & he knows this! I am the one who is paying the price, now I hardly get to see these friends. Do I call & tell them the situation, or leave it until they realize there is a problem that we are not going out with them any longer? I am feeling I just want to end it as I am really tired of trying and at this age how do you start over….. I really miss going out with these friends, and I don’t think he cares one way or the other – he can alway go to the FLOP HOUSE & drink with his “SIGNIFICANT OTHER!” WHERE DO I GO FROM HERE?

    1. Sue

      Oh you poor love, you must feel stifled . ❤️
      You are clearly unhappy in this relationship and all that goes with it.
      Look at what’s important to you and go forward with that it mind. Seek support from family and friends, also any support groups for families of alcoholics.
      I hope you can find the strength to find your own happiness ❤️

    2. Barbara l fifield

      Get a lawyer and sue him for divorce. Keep the house and give him the flop house. Travel clubs , women clubs, sports, whatever to find other interests. You may not find the man of your dreams yet, but you need to be number one in your life. He has to pay you alimony too. That’s why you need a lawyer. You need peace of mind at this ti.e of your life.

  2. Glennis Pounds

    To Whom It May Concern. Will I ever fine truth love. The guys that I talk with are full of games. And I don’t have time for games. Can u have a talk with about the situation.

    1. dmarantz moderator

      Glennis, our psychics don’t do personal readings in the comments section out of respect for your privacy. Please call for a reading. Thanks. 🙂

  3. JThomas

    Saturday MAY 14th 2016.
    “THE KEY TO FINDING TRUE LOVE” Order Is The FIRST Law of HEAVEN.One must have order to survive on Earth.What makes Life Fulfilling Is balance.In a relationship I always reinforce up front the respect I expect and will give and the outcome we arework-
    toward.Did YOU ALL Discuss A monogamous relationship?The “KEY” to more JOY Is enforcing “Your” right to be respected.
    “I don’t have to do It ALONE!” I Have A Talk With {GOD} Regularly. (JT)

  4. Sandra

    He finally said he loves me. Not sure if believe. playing with me? He loves women! He does want companion, love, committed. Don’t think he can commit to me seriously. I feel he does care foR me. He’s INTELLIGENT, caring, good guy, but not at the potential he can right now. For now we’re enjoying EACHOTHER. O just want to be wanted for the moment. Help me get through the process of everything I need to take care of, u know.?? He can be a good friend also…. Don’t know!!?? …..what’s the outlook.??!……


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