The Search for Love
Trying to find love can be frustrating. People search and search, looking here and there, sometimes double-checking places that they’ve already been three or four times. Looking for romance is a worthwhile pursuit, but to maximize your chances of success, it’s important that you adopt the right approach when doing so. Luckily, grounding and setting your intentions using these strategies is the key to successfully manifesting love.
Manifesting Love in Three Steps
There are three steps to manifesting love: thoughts, words, and deeds. Thinking about what you desire is obviously the first part. Imagine the loving relationship you want and visualize your soulmate so that you are clearly communicating this to Spirit. After that, you’ll need to speak your thoughts out loud and declare your desires to the Universe. Last but certainly not least, do something about it! Take action. There are a variety of ways to use this method, but the version below is quick and effective way to help you find love (and vice versa)!
Step 1: Create a List
Start by creating a list of the traits you want your ideal partner to have. Think only in adjectives, (strong, independent, elegant, etc.), and write them down in a neat list, either in a notepad or on your phone — whatever method suits you best. It’s okay to shoot for the moon and write down exactly what you want. Describe who you’d like to attract and don’t waste time being humble. If money is important to you, ask for someone who has it. You should also consider their personality, family relationships, where they live, and if they have children from a previous relationship. The Universe needs details, so provide as many as you can. If you’re having a hard time coming up with something, try thinking about what you don’t want in a partner, then write down the opposite traits.
Something else to consider when making this list is how you want your future partner to make you feel when you finally meet them. The physical and personal details are important, but they pale in comparison to the feelings that you’re going to experience when you spend time with your partner. If you long for security in your relationships, write that down. Alternatively, if the thing you want most is that warm, fuzzy, contented feeling that true love brings, write that down in big, bold letters so that the Universe can get the picture.
Step 2: Read Your List Out Loud
When you feel like you’ve written down as much as you can (remember, you can always add more later), read your list out loud. This is the most crucial part of the manifestation process, because the Universe needs to hear you say what you want. So say it, sing it, yell it — whatever you need to do so that you know in your heart that the Universe has heard your desires.
Not only will speaking your intentions aloud help the Universe hear you, but it will help you on a personal level. A 2005 study by British psychologists found that when people say things out loud, they are mentally making those ideas their top priorities. So when you read your list of desires aloud, you are more likely to be drawn to people who remind you of that list.
Step 3: Take Action
When you’re finished, roll up your list like you would a scroll and tie a pink ribbon, thread, or string around it. (Use pink because it is the color of love.) After that, go into your bedroom and place your list in the right-hand corner that is furthest from the door. In feng shui, this is called your partnership bagua.
Another important part of taking action is to work on improving yourself. Despite the infamous phrase “opposites attract,” the law of attraction actually states that like beckons like. This doesn’t mean that you won’t have a contrasting personality to your partner, but positivity does attract positivity. When you focus on becoming the sort of partner that you want to have, you’ll naturally find yourself meeting more people who fulfill your criteria.
Use Colors To Manifest Love
Wearing colors like pink or red will signal to the Universe that you’re ready for your soulmate to arrive. In feng shui, pink and red are the colors of love, so surrounding yourself with either or both colors can help align your inner and outer lives with your desires.
Any shade will suffice, and it doesn’t have to visible all the time. You could wear pink or red clothes, jewelry, lingerie, or pajamas. This sends subtle waves of receptivity out into the world through your aura, which will help you find the keys to true love. If you are honest with the Universe, it will give you exactly what you want.
If wearing pink or red really isn’t your style, you can also decorate your home with pink, as well as flowers and other décor, such as pillows, blankets, and wall hangings. You could also tap into the power of love crystals like rose quartz and ruby, either by carrying them on your person or keeping them near your bed.
Trust the Universe To Help You Find Love
It can be easy to get discouraged when you keep running into dead ends in your search for love. But don’t give up hope: there is more than enough love in the world for everyone. You just have to remain open to it. Trust that the Universe has your back, and when you start manifesting the love that you desire, know that it won’t let you down.
If you need help figuring out the Universe’s plan for you or understanding how you can adjust your manifestation process, a consultation with a Love Psychic Advisor can provide support.
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