Is Love on the Way?
Love seems to be all around us, all the time. But what does that mean for the single among us who don’t want to be single? It could mean that the stars haven’t been properly aligned for you in the past, that you weren’t compatible with your previous partners, or there just haven’t been good options out there for you. It could also mean that you have some internal work to do. If you’d like this year to be your year for love, try some of our tips listed below.
Being You is Enough
There is nothing more harmful than comparing yourself to others. Defining yourself by measuring your value against others can take a big chunk out of your self-esteem—for no reason. The only person you are competing against is yourself and all that matters is how you feel about yourself. Make it about what matters to you most, and not about other people who may judge you. The more you love yourself, the greater the love you will receive from your partner.
So many of us have inhibitions, fears, or knee-jerk reflexes from past experiences. We have created self-imposed safety zones that are keeping us up in the nosebleed section when we should really be center stage. Then, when a relationship is going well, we can become anxious, waiting for the other shoe to drop instead of going with the flow. It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy at its worst; however, affecting the necessary changes in ourselves could make us more receptive to love. Will this be the year you find the courage to believe in yourself and create the love life you have always wanted?
Change Your Focus
If you’re feeling stuck in a holding pattern when it comes to your dating or love life, it might be because your focus and your energy needs to shift. Instead of trying to create a loving relationship with someone else, maybe you need to create a loving relationship with yourself. Make this the year of self-love and kindness towards you, and you may find that your relationships with others, be it friends, family, or significant others, drastically improves as well.
Small Changes. Big Impact.
Finding love is not about abandoning who you are and becoming someone else you think will be more appealing. It’s about learning to love yourself first and jettisoning any negative self-talk and self-sabotaging habits you’ve developed along the way. Small changes, such as adding a positive affirmation to your morning routine to boost your confidence can have a big impact on your confidence and will affect how others respond to you as well.
A Little Mindfulness Goes a Long Way
Your thoughts influence your feelings. Your feelings drive your actions. If you are overwhelmed with thoughts of judgment and self-doubt, your personality will reflect that negativity. However, becoming mindful and boosting your self-talk can transform 2020 into your year for love. It’s true, self-confidence is not born overnight, but becoming more self-aware and asking yourself in the moment if your thoughts are hurting or helping you is a good place to start. Just take a moment to reboot and your behavior will start to become more intentional and positive. It will also make you a better partner.
Develop a Healthy Relationship with Your Feelings
It’s important to acknowledge how you really feel about any given situation. If you are feeling unsure and insecure in a relationship, it’s important to explore those feelings. Are you feeling constantly negged by your partner? Or do they just keep leaving their dirty dishes in the sink rather than putting them in the dishwasher? Either way, it’s not in your best interests to bottle up your emotions till they explode. Talk to a friend, a licensed therapist, or a California Psychics advisor about your feelings and experiences. A good talk always helps clear the air.
Open Yourself Up
Make this the year of living differently. Shake up the dating routine with new adventures, like taking a new class together, trying a new sport, or going on fun weekend getaways. Even something simple like watching an interesting TED talk or experimenting with a new menu item on the grill can create a dating experience that will infuse a date with new energy and interest too.
Believe in the Love You Want
Think of this year as a blank canvas for love. Now imagine filling it will the bright colors of a new and special relationship. What a masterpiece it will be! Any time is the right time to make this your year of romance, so why not begin right now?
Being in love is a life experience that everyone deserves. Whether you’re looking for your soulmate or wondering how to keep the romantic fires burning in your relationship, a love psychic can help. They want to see you happy and a psychic love reading can help you find or keep the love that is meant for you.
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