“But it was only fantasy…
the wall was too high as you can see.
No matter how [s]he tried, [s]he could not break free”
— Pink Floyd, The Wall
So we all know that men have active sexual thoughts and fantasies. They typically think about sex more frequently than women (Every 20 seconds, anyone?). But what do women think
about when they’re doing the deed?!
Hey guys — the next time your woman seems to be wandering off in thought, she may be daydreaming or fantasizing! But … about what?
Can you guess?
Drum roll please ….
The #1 answer: Being ravished by their favorite lead actor (I’ve thought about this while dreaming, not while making love, mind you — Robert Downey Jr. does it for moi) This gets the juices pumping and flowing for women in longer term relationships or with those who have husbands, and that’s all they need to get hot and heavy!
2. Some women think about their favorite toys, pleasure enhancing gadgetry does the trick for them. They don’t need to use it, mind you, just thinking about it seems to get things moving in the right direction.
3. Women who are in and out of relationships think about ex-lovers, contrasting and comparing it to their real time lovemaking session with their current flame. (Don’t smack me – I’ve done this!)
So why aren’t ladies thinking about their men and what they’re doing to (and for) them in the moment? Are they putting up a wall? Is it a defense mechanism or cover for something deeper? When a relationship turns lackluster, so does its sex life.
Is this on point? Does it really DO IT for you?
All you ladies out there — tell us what you’re REALLY thinking about when you’re horizontal…