Tarot and Your Relationships
The Wheel of Fortune Tarot card illuminates cycles and repetitive patterns in relationships. While familiarity and comfort depend on the repetition of positive actions, this card can also indicate that painful, negative and even toxic behaviors are present. When this card appears and I receive the question, “When will my significant other change?” I have to answer honestly, and tell my caller that unfortunately, their partner has a few tendencies that are not going away anytime soon. While this news may be disheartening, I look to it more as a call to action to get off that hamster wheel and MOVE ON! Here are a few red flags to look for if you wonder why you keep feeling stuck on the merry-go-round in your affairs of the heart:
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You Have “Circular” Arguments
Disagreements will inevitably take place even in the most joyful relationships, and they are not only necessary but healthy for the growth of any partnership. The ability to communicate effectively involves expressing yourself and listening to your partner’s perspective without overshadowing or over-empathizing. The whole point of arguing is seeking a resolution in order to move forward with a deeper and clearer understanding. If you walk away from every misunderstanding feeling defeated or unheard, keep on walking—towards the exit door!
You Repeat Yourself and Still Feel Ignored
You notice that your mate always seems distracted despite your greatest attention-grabbing tactics. If you say the same thing over and over and all those details fall on deaf ears or consistently escape his or her memory, you will begin to feel unimportant and worse, unloved. If you continuously strive to win the affections of your love and he or she doesn’t bat an eyelash, it’s time to save your breath for someone who wants to get to know you.
You Have to Pull Away to Draw Them Back in
Does your lover frequently seem distant? Or do they drop off the face of the earth with no word for weeks at a time? Do you count the days of ZERO communication and go through the whole spectrum of emotions from worry to fear, to anger to heartbreak and back again until the phone finally rings? At some point, you figure out that if you feign disinterest maybe that will once and for all capture the focus and the heart of your beloved. It might even work for some time, but how exhausting! This vicious cycle feels more like a tug of war instead of the true love you deserve. Let go of that rope once and for all!
If you are feeling hopeless, distraught or simply frustrated because you keep spinning your wheels in your relationship, take heart and know that you can leave. In those moments when you feel your needs and desires must be sacrificed again and again in order to keep your relationship intact, it may be time to reevaluate and get a fresh perspective on a tired situation. If you call me and I pull the Wheel of Fortune Tarot card, perhaps your luck is about to make a swift shift, but do not sit back and just wait for things to get better on their own! Have the courage to leave a bad relationship and save yourself the pain and heartache of trying to change someone who is unwilling or unable. Now is the time to clear the space and open the door for the right person—your soul mate—to enter into your life. Do not settle for less!
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