Using Ultimatums in Love
When you think about your current relationship, are you wondering if it’s time to call it quits? Do you love your partner, but feel like your relationship isn’t going anywhere? When it comes to love, sometimes we have to limit how much we give our partner so we can protect ourselves from heartbreak. We have to put an expiration date on love.
There are ultimatums that ask our partners to make a choice: “Marry me or we’re breaking up.” “Get a better job or we’re breaking up.” “Move in with me or we’re breaking up.” While an ultimatum may jump-start a relationship and get it moving forward again, they often don’t work as expected. Sometimes the even backfire. And some people are afraid to put their relationship on the line and challenge their partner. They fear they’ll end up alone and full of regret.
If you’re relationship is feeling stagnant, it may be time to take action. It’s important to remember that giving your partner an ultimatum may not get you the results you want. You need to prepare yourself for all potential outcomes.
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The first thing you need to do is make sure that your relationship is going nowhere. Here are some signs to consider:
No Signs of a Future Together
If you have a vision for what your future should look like—marriage, house and kids—your partner should have the same vision too. And more importantly, they have to want all those things with you. If you’ve been together for a long time and the future never comes up, chances are they don’t see you together down the road.
So how can be sure? Confront your partner and ask them what they want out of your relationship and if they see a future with you. Don’t settle for comments like” “We’re taking it day by day” or “I don’t like to think too far ahead.” If you want a future with them, ask for it. Just be prepared to hear something you may not like.
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Your Communication Has Taken a Dive
Communication is extremely important when it comes to a successful relationship. If you feel like you and your partner aren’t communicating as well as you used to, bring it up to them. If you feel like you are doing all the communicating and talking to your partner is like talking to a wall, it might be time to put an expiration date on your relationship.
5 Years from Now
Can you see yourself with them five years from now? If communication doesn’t improve and they won’t make a commitment to you, do you even want to be with them five years down the road? If you see them not changing, maybe it’s time to move on. If you don’t, you might end up feeling very alone in a relationship.
You Blame Each Other and Fight Often
If you communicate by fighting, you know that’s a problem. If you are always blaming each other for everything that goes wrong in your relationship, you know there is a problem. If you constantly hurt each other with your words and actions, you might not be destined to be together in the long-term.
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Healthy relationships are based on respect, understanding, communication and care. If you current relationship doesn’t have any of these qualities, chances are your won’t be together much longer. That’s why it’s important to put an expiration date on love. Give your partner time to change, but don’t give them an unlimited amount of time. Know when you’re going to move on alone. It won’t be easy at first, but time will pass and you’ll know you’ve done the right thing. Life is too short to put up with a partner who doesn’t love and respect you in the way you want them to. You can find the mature relationship you desire, as long as you don’t let anything hold you back.