Your Angels can Inspire Him to Commit to You!
Ladies, one of the biggest questions I get from my female clients is how they can inspire the man in their life to commit to them. If your man is hesitant, I suggest consulting your angels. Here are just a few of their suggestions for getting him to commit to you. Want more? Remember, I can consult with your angels directly. They have so much more to tell you!
Focus On Joy
Nothing inspires a man more than a happy, confident, vibrant woman. Seeing you shine in your own right will help him realize that deepening his commitment to you will bring more happiness and positivity into his life. Get rid of things and people and habits that drag you down. If you live your life fully and abundantly before he commits, then he will see himself as part of your dynamically positive life. This will motivate him to be a permanent addition to your life path!
Ditch the Jealousy
Yes, a little jealousy is healthy. In fact it lets your guy know he’s wanted and cherished. But jealousy needs to be used extremely sparingly. If you are looking to foster deep and lasting commitment from him, then your lover needs to see confidence that you are the right woman for him, not comparing and competing with other ladies. There’s no faster way to make a man run for the hills than to demand constant reassurance that he isn’t looking at other women. A woman who shows her confidence in her connection with a man will catch his eye and make him want to catch and keep her.
Be an Asset
Most men are really very straight forward in the way that they consider commitment. Are you an asset, or a liability? Men typically see commitment as an alliance. They want a mate who makes life easier, not harder. This is where you have to take a good look at your own life. Do you have good, strong social relationships, or are you hounded by drama? Can you manage your budget? Do you take care of your health, or do you neglect yourself physically and emotionally? Making sure that you are bringing a good things to the table in a relationship, and leaving junk and baggage behind, will pull him closer to eternal dedication.
Stand Your Ground
You have standards for what you do and do not want in your life. You have needs, desires and spiritual and moral commitments. Do not compromise those for him. A man needs a woman that is authentic and trustworthy. How can he really trust you if you bend your own rules for him? If he doesn’t have what you’re looking for, let go of him. If his life isn’t together, if he isn’t an asset to you, tell him to come back when he’s ready. You can be loving in the way you do it. But have a backbone. He needs to know he can depend on you to be strong on your own so that you and he can make a strong team.
This is the biggest and most important factor in getting him to give his whole heart and loyalty. Just like we want to know that he loves us like mad, he also wants to know the same thing. The secret to truly passionate love is to make the simple choice that we are going to step out in faith and love no matter what happens. Many men are secretly terrified that the woman they adore doesn’t really love them, but only loves the idea of committed relationships in general. They’re worried that women only offer love with the condition that this relationship is headed towards a bigger, long-term investment. To most guys that feels like he has to make a promise without knowing exactly what that promise will mean in the future. But by contrast, knowing that someone loves him with all their soul is almost irresistible. So focus on living in the moment and loving him in the now, and he will be in a hurry to sign up for a lifetime of unconditional love and commit to you!