Getting Over Being Cheated On and Finding Your Soulmate

Finding Your Soulmate

You Really Don’t Want Him Back!

Is she prettier than me?
Is she smarter than me?
Does he love her more than me?
Does she make him happier than I do?
Does he feel guilty for cheating on me?

Find out if they’re cheating on you! Psychic Ladonna is waiting with your answer.

I receive many calls from women who have been cheated on. Having an unfaithful partner takes its toll on the emotions and is nothing short of devastating. It wreaks havoc on self-esteem. My female callers take being cheated on personally.

Women Blame Themselves

Women tend to blame themselves for being cheated on. What did they do (or not do) that caused their significant other to stray? And they want me to help them win their significant other back. They want to prove that they are the better choice and that the mistress will not be successful in taking their man away. But ladies let me ask you this: What are you actually winning? More heartache? More insecurities? More feelings of unworthiness? More tears? More untrustworthiness?

I am a firm believer in two things:
1. If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at will change.
2. You must deal with reality in a logical way.

Discover What You Really Want in a Soulmate

It’s time to let go of that cheater and focus on finding a new and better relationship! Grab a pen and piece of paper and write down exactly what you want in a soulmate. Your list may look something like this:

1. I want someone who is trustworthy.
2. I want someone who is loyal and faithful.
3. I want someone who is connected and attentive.
4. I want someone who makes me an important part of their life.

Love yourself enough to take the time to do this. Read your list aloud and think about the person who has cheated on you. You’ll find they are no match for your soulmate. So when you cry over a cheater, remember that you are not crying over the cheater; you are crying over what they did not give you, which is what you really want (according to your list). Your soulmate is not the person who cheated on you. They cannot and will not fulfill your desires.

There Were Red Flags

Be honest. There was a part of you that knew your cheating partner could not live up to your expectations. The one you really want can’t come to you if your cheating partner is still in the picture, so stop crying over them. They’re just taking up space in your life. Don’t give more time and attention to someone who isn’t worthy of you.

Grieving and Rejoicing

If you’ve been cheated on and you call me, know that I will grieve with you. But I will also rejoice for you because I know that you will learn and heal from this experience. I know that you will choose better next time. I know that the universe is trying to send you what you really want, now that you understand what you really want in a significant other. Take the love and attention you poured into that cheating partner and pour it into yourself instead. Then watch what the universe brings you because you did that!

Psychic Ladonna ext. 6460

2 thoughts on “Getting Over Being Cheated On and Finding Your Soulmate

  1. James

    What if it the woman who has cheated on partner, I really need to know because I know people who help facilitate these affairs.

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