The Struggle to Stay Together
I have a very special client. She started reading with me early on my journey with California Psychics. She was in a relationship with a man who was very painful and agonizing to her heart and spirit. He would come and go, leaving her with empty promises. There were problems integrating families. He would spend endless hours on the dating site where they met. She would watch him on the site obsessively. Her response was one of rage and exhaustion. She was in spiritual turmoil.
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She came to me through divine intervention with a mixture of emotions. She loved him, she hated him and most of the time, she thought it was hopeless. But, I always saw them together. I would say, “Please understand, he loves you deeply. He’s not out of your life and you will be choosing between two men.” She called my prediction the “No Way” prediction. She didn’t think they would stay together.
There was one session where she was so emotionally depleted. She said, “Anasela, please tell me it’s over. I can’t bear it anymore.” My reply was almost immediate! It almost startled me. I said, “When a goblet is full of one’s desires and needs, there isn’t any room for spiritual intervention.” She shouted, “What the hell is that suppose to mean?” I laughed and explained to her that there is a universal energy that surrounds us if we stress that energy with wanting to direct and manipulate events. It sends a message to the universe that you’re not ready to receive. I could feel that she was getting angrier and frustrated. “Ok, so what do I do now?” she asked.
Destiny vs. Fate
She’d already started the process by allowing herself the kindness to stop trying to manipulate and direct her relationship energy. I went on to explain that there are times when a couple must evolve apart in order to move forward together. In sessions that followed, I explained that we often confuse destiny and fate to be one of the same. It’s not. Destiny is written before we draw our first breath. With fate there are many paths that lead to the same place. Often times we’re unsure where we’re headed and we feel lost and confused. But all paths lead to where we’re destined to be. I told her that she was destined to marry this man.
Our calls went on like this for a few years, when all of a sudden she stopped calling me. I would continually send her blessings and surrounded her with white light to keep her on course and for strength. I would also send him blessings for courage to leave the past in the past and to follow her heart.
Then the call came. Before I took the call, I was overwhelmed by such a sense of total joy and happiness. It made my eyes tear. I took a few seconds to compose myself. The second I heard her voice, almost in a scream, I said “You married him!” She laughed and said, “My dearest friend, you always said you would know before I said hello. Yes, we’re married. Yes I had to choose between two men and yes, it’s still difficult with the families. I love you and you’re always in my heart. Thank you for the gift of hope.”
I wish them a long and happy marriage!
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