5 Tips for Finding Love

5 Tips for Finding Love

Love Doesn’t Just Happen to You

For many, February is all about love. With Valentine’s Day coming up, you may be looking for new love. It can be challenging. That’s because love isn’t something that just falls out of the sky and into your lap—it doesn’t just happen to you. You have to be an active participant in creating it. Are you doing your part? Let’s find out!

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1. Love Yourself, Including Your Flaws
When you love yourself and are confident, you attract the right people to you. You don’t have to be perfect or live the perfect life to find the love that’s perfect for you. But if you need healing, you can start the process while you’re looking for love. And be sure to love yourself in the process.

2. Let Go of Guilt to Learn From Your Mistakes
So what if you’ve made mistakes in the past. We all have! Guilt creates feelings of unworthiness and shame. Do you feel like you have to continue to “pay” for the mistakes you’ve made in the past? You don’t! Past experiences (good and bad) are filled with lessons to be learned. How can you take those lessons, turn them into blessings and grow if you’re consumed by guilt and regret? You can’t! But if you can turn a negative experience into a positive one, you’ll feel empowered.

3. Review Your Dating Resume
Take an inventory of yourself. What are your best qualities and what do you have to offer to a potential partner? Now make a list of what you’re looking for in a partner? Do your best qualities match your future mate’s best qualities? Make sure you are someone you’d want to date and fall in love with.

4. Make Yourself Feel Special and Pretty
When you’re in a relationship, do you spend a lot of time on yourself? Do you wear nice lingerie, get your hair and nails done and dress up? Does all that go to the wayside when you’re single? It shouldn’t! You don’t need to look good for someone else. It’s more important that you look good for yourself. When you look good, you feel good about yourself and that self-confidence attracts love.

5. Know How Other People See You
You may not be aware of how you come across to others. Are you negative? Do you complain a lot—even about little things? Do you dump your disappointments and negative experiences on anyone who’ll listen? Don’t make others feel sorry for you. You’re not a charity case, and no one wants a charity case for a life partner! Instead, reframe your experiences and put a positive spin on them. Focus on the lessons you’ve learned or how the experiences made you a stronger person.

Love is Waiting

If you do the work, love will be waiting for you. And the harder you work on yourself, the greater the love you’ll find.

Psychic Ivory ext. 6551

9 thoughts on “5 Tips for Finding Love

  1. Ivory ext 6551

    Hi Chrissi,

    I am so sorry that your husband seem very quick to point out what he thinks are negative attributes that you have. First of all, YOU ARE NOT STUPID! You have many gifts and talents and you know you have a good head on you!

    Perhaps it is time to have a heart t heart talk with him and let him know how his comments are making you feel. If he changes his behavior or at least indicates that he is sorry that is a good sign that things can improve from there.

    Remember, the only person you can change or control is you. If anyone doesn’t give you the love and/or respect you deserve it might be time for you to make some new decisions. You always have the power to change your situation.

    Give us a call if you need some additional guidance on the situation.
    I wish you all the best,
    Ivory at ext 6551

  2. Ivory ext 6551

    Thank you for the feedback Gina Rose. 🙂
    Sometimes holding an honest mirror up to ourselves is so hard when trying not to be defensive, isn’t it? We can only change what we acknowledge and love ourselves while we try to evolve.
    Have a great day,
    Ivory ext 6551

  3. Gina Rose ext.9500Gina Rose ext.9500

    Loved Tip # 1 ….Learning to love yourself is important, because if you don’t love yourself, it will hurt any relationship you are trying to have.

    All of these are good tips…..tip # 5 was especially great too.

    Nice job, Ivory!

    Blessed Be )O(
    Gina Rose ext.9500

  4. Chrissi

    my hubby is always finding something about me he doesn’t like- and telling me I’m stupid too yet I was good enough to get married to and have his son- then he wonders why I withdraw from him after one of his moans- especially as one time he reckoned he wasn’t good enough for me !!


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