Happy Birthday! This is a pivotal year for you because you discover that you have the power and the right to say “No!” Breaking free from the bondage of people-pleasing and acquiescing to everyone else’s wants, paying more attention to others than you pay to yourself, putting everyone else in front of you and settling for the scraps of what’s left, all of this is coming to a close, and the sooner the better! Of course, these behaviors won’t change overnight, but change they will, one step, and one person, at a time.
Don’t be surprised if the first time you tell someone “no,” it feels like you’ve shouted it. You didn’t. It’s just new and scary and feels bigger than it is. But the more you practice taking care of and loving yourself, really tuning in to what you want and honoring that, the easier it becomes. Soon the old coping mechanisms listed above begin to disappear and are replaced by healthy behavior, choices, and good company. And here’s the thing, you don’t owe anyone an explanation, justification, or reason. “No” is a complete sentence and it says all that needs to be said.
Be prepared for old relationships and people to fall away. As you become a new person the relationships and situations you’ve outgrown will automatically be shed like a snake that’s outgrown its old skin. This is a good thing. Trust that the Universe will replace everything and everyone with an upgrade, and just keep moving. A Clairvoyant Psychic can help you feel good about the future you’re creating.