Relationship Issues and Your Higher Self
My approach to helping clients with relationship issues is to tune into the Higher Self of each party (including the children, if any) in order to give voice to all the perspectives on the situation that are available. A reading can provide useful options to the client, especially when what’s in the foreground and background of the client’s awareness can be re-sorted so they can rearrange their approach to a current challenge.
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A Potential Affair
Suzanne (not her real name) hoped that beginning her first affair would offer her the excitement missing in her 20-year marriage. My reading revealed (much to Suzanne’s dismay) that her husband, who was on the road for his sales job, had remained faithful to her and did not have a girlfriend as Suzanne had hoped. She was hoping to use this information to justify an affair of her own .
Her Negative Outlook
Suzanne’s extended time apart from her husband, in addition to her job, could have been filled with meaningful activities such as exercise, a hobby or evening classes at the community college. But Suzanne’s negative outlook on life had her see her husband’s absences as something that was taking away from her quality of life.
An Unrequited Love
Suzanne’s fixation on having this potential affair centered on an unrequited love from high school—a boy that all the girls had been interested in. With her 20th high school reunion around the corner, and her archenemy sure to attend, Suzanne also wanted this affair for bragging rights.
The Dry Times
Like many couples, Suzanne and her husband were apparently great as a couple in the beginning when everything was new, but they had few skills during the inevitable “dry times” of their relationship, so they had long ago retreated to their separate corners of the relationship. Similar to many couples experiencing a lack of marital satisfaction, Suzanne’s tendency was to scout the terrain and contemplate an affair.
Giving Her Marriage a Real Chance
She also realized that she and her husband each had a history of “scanning the room” and neither of them felt “chosen for keeps” by the other. She had never given her marriage a full chance by keeping one fantasy foot out the door. Her teenage daughter was just starting to date and Suzanne realized that only by fully committing to being “all in” would she be able to look her daughter in the eye. She wanted to teach her a lesson about commitment.
Like Mother, Like Daughter?
The reading also revealed that when Suzanne was six, her mother had an affair that resulted in divorce from her father. As a child, she remembered the divorce as double the usual birthday and Christmas gifts. But my reading helped shift Suzanne’s perception and she started to view her possible divorce through the mindset of an awakened adult. Therefore, divorce was an event she had the power to prevent for the sake of herself and her two children. After speaking with me she realized she had one last chance to try and save her marriage, provided she followed the steps I suggested, including ending the affair before it began.
Renewing Their Vows
Months later, I received a call from Suzanne. She and her husband had renewed their vows. One of the pivotal vows they made was “May the next twenty be so much better.” I have faith that they will be now that Suzanne has experienced relationship awareness.
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