For the unsuspecting amour, smooth talking Gemini can be among the most difficult signs to date. Why, you wonder? Because as anyone who has tangoed with the Twins knows, it often seems like there are three people in the relationship - you and two very different sides of them!
Still, all is not hopeless when it comes to getting it on (or going somewhere serious) with this admirably intelligent and illustrious Air Sign. The key to a successful relationship with Gemini is knowing what you're getting into… at least a little bit. So use this trusted guide to dating the Twins.
Be independent
At once a caring, thoughtful mate and a thrill seeking spitfire who loves the chase, Gemini can be hard to pin down (or win over). Theirs, after all, is the sign of duality, who craves all things at once and oftentimes gets them. For this reason, Twins require partners who keep them on their toes. Independent, smart, interesting people with their own goals and hobbies will likely intrigue Gemini.
Clingy types who need constant attention or sponges who look to their lovers for examples of where to go or what to enjoy, on the other hand, won't hold the focus of these imaginative Air Signs. The trouble is, they may or may not let you know where you stand at any given time! That's because Gemini wants their cake and to eat it, too. Translation: It's better to have any date rather than no date on a Saturday night - the twins are absolute pros at holding interesting one way conversations. They simply hate sitting at home alone.
To hold a Gemini's interest, the importance of independence cannot be understated. Nor can your ability to hold back on sharing everything about yourself. After all, even the most fascinating person in the world becomes less so with all their secrets divulged. Above almost all else, Gemini loves to be intrigued, so the longer you can keep them guessing, the better your odds are of keeping them around!
Out of their heads!
Gemini, perhaps more than any other sign, is a thinker. This sounds like a good thing in most situations, and no doubt there are advantages to a sharp and inquisitive mind. The problem arises, however, when thoughts get in the way of feelings, as is wont to happen with this reason-driven sign. Often emotionally cut off, Gemini actually relishes any opportunity to feel - which is what explains their tendency toward thrill-seeking. Anything that gets the adrenaline flowing reminds the Twins that they're alive in a real, concrete, not just in their head sense.
Find your way in to a Gemini's heart (cook together, go dancing, try kayaking or any unusual activity for starters) and they may let their guard down. In which case, you'll solidify your place in their all-important, overactive head.
Bold and daring in bed...
By this point, you no doubt understand that Gemini is not easily entertained, and this holds true in the bedroom, too. As such, a vanilla lover will not satisfy this fast-tongued talker, but someone who understands their needs and is able to accommodate them, will get the satisfaction of that fast tongue and vivid imagination!
Sound intimidating? The truth is that keeping a Gemini sexually satisfied can be a tall order. The good news for sexually shy types is, you needn't be an Olympian in the boudoir to make an impression. Rather, if you want to keep the Twins coming back for more, you must simply be willing to mix it up! Try it prolonged and pampered on a Saturday night, then initiate a quicky in the shower before work on Monday. Slip a note in their briefcase with a one line "heretofore secret fantasy," or let the phone conversation take an explicit naughty turn one night before bed.
Remember that unlike Earth Signs (whose urges begin with the physical), Water Signs (who find fire in emotional connection) and Fire Signs (who are driven by passionate attraction), Air Signs - especially Gemini - find arousal beginning in the brain. Use that to your advantage with the Twins and you may find yourself with a captive (and sated) audience.
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