Many callers enjoy speaking to Mediums here at CP, including myself, and have received tremendous comfort, reassurance, and guidance from their loved ones on the other side. Learning to apply your medium reading to your everyday life can also help soothe your soul and help with grief as well. Here’s how to keep your loved ones near after a call.
First, put out photos of the person in your everyday environment. This serves as a magnet to your loved one on the other side. It is also a “Welcome,” signal and invitation for the loved ones to be messaged. In the Jewish religion, we light memorial candles — you can definitely try those too, no matter what your spiritual background. (You can find them at most grocery or drug stores.)
Second, write a note and place it next to your loved one’s photos. If one is patient, there will be answers – – either when you are on your own, or during a reading.
Confirmations may come directly to you, or to a Medium through these types of notes, as the Medium can serve as a literal mediator between the client and the loved one on the other side.
For example, my grandmother keeps my grandfather’s last love letter next to his picture. She’s had phenomenal responses. He has even fixed the coffee maker, while my uncle went out to get another one. She knew my grandfather would fix it. The new one my uncle got is still sitting in the closet!
Next, talk to them when alone, sing them the songs they loved. Not only does it keep their spirit around, but you might receive confirmation that they are listening, and even responding.
I lost a very dear friend about 16 years ago. This person was an avid Rod Stewart fan. I can’t begin to tell you how many times I have talked to him since his crossing, and then have turned on the radio and Rod Stewart was on.
The most intense response from the other side happened when I was leaving a love situation that became unlivable. I had just decided to start packing my bags, and turned on the radio to Rod Stewart singing “I’m Losing You.” It was clear confirmation that my friend supported my decision. It was amazing — divine timing — I packed my bags and never looked back.
Finally, keep in mind when talking to a Medium that you might ask about one person, but sometimes other spirits, even ancestors that were attached to the loved one in question, can come forward. Additionally, the closer you were with the loved one on the other side, the more information and messages will flow in your reading.
A reading with a Medium can help keep the link with your loved one on the other side stronger. It gives you first hand knowledge that you are never alone.