I have several clients concerned about the holiday parties they are going to be attending — be it their company, church or neighborhood party.
More often than not, the concern revolves around a fling or romance and they need to know if their lover is bringing their spouse or significant other to the gathering. When circumstances occur where you are facing the “other partner” the feelings of guilt and disappointment will always occur. Are you seeing the person you “love” with their spouse or present partner? If so, be prepared as it will create hurt and disappointment for the hidden person in the affair.
Many do not want to go face to face with their lover’s spouse or present partner. Anxious feelings are being felt within for this potential happening. This in turn causes disappointment and a sadness that is not normally felt. Many of my clients have made a decision not to participate with the office, church or neighborhood function where the lover’s spouse would be attending. Others were causing themselves stress over the “what if.”
When you have put yourself in a situation that does create hurtful or sad feelings then it will make you feel less than who you really are. This sets up more emotional stress and your health becomes more compromised.
This situation is a challenge to the relationship, which adds on to the already obvious challenges. How do you get yourself out of the potential panic or possible depression? That is where the psychic and the client work together and see what the ramifications will be. Sometimes the panic does not play out, the spouse does not show up, fun and the hope of a private party could come about. But, the emotions were being expressed and played out up to the point when they see changed plans had occurred. This still takes a toll on the nervous system and emotional stability of everyone involved.
Healing the hurt and frustration has to take place, and determining if this is worth the time can take place with the psychic’s cards or their astrology chart. This is a difficult time for any relationship, even more so when one of the lovers has to appear as a nonexistent love or nonexistent special someone to their co-workers, friends, family, or neighbors, etc.
Making a happy ending to this complex knot is where we as psychic’s get our humble time as we want to see a way around the problem for everyone concerned, and it can become very challenging for us as well. Fortunately, we do get some amazing answers that allow a chance to make it right, and sometimes we are shown things that make it to hard to make it right. But we do have choices and it’s nice to know what options are available to us.
Happy Holidays everyone, plus a safe New Year in 2010.