I’m a 55 year old widow. Should I wait for the 55 year old Virgo widower to be ready to move on in life with me, or go for the fun loving playboy who’s 40?
It is going to be some time before your widower friend is ready to move forward with any level of commitment in this, or any, relationship. While he is a nice enough guy, he just isn’t ready to embrace life, or love, to the fullest.
There is nothing around you that tells me you actually have to choose between these two men at the current time. So, while the widower ponders the meaning of life and all of its ramifications; there is nothing written that says you can’t be out having fun with the playboy who just may try and whisk you away.
Either way, it is still going to be a couple of years before you are settled into a solid relationship. Now is a time for you just to roll with the opportunities that come your way, and enjoy the experiences. While you may think that your choice is between these two men, it is with man number three that you will spend the rest of life.