Dear Red, I have been speaking to two men long distance via the internet. The first one I met in March 2004. We were very close for over a year, I felt I had a very close connection with him (in a deep way ... read more

I have been married just over eight months now. As in every relationship, we have had ups and downs–well, more ups than downs, but since we have been married, things have changed. I know there are ... read more

I have a friend that I will call "El." We have been seeing each other for about two months and after one month of seeing each other he revealed that he has a live-in girlfriend. He spends a lot of time ... read more

I've been writing now for a while, I hope you will take my question this time. I cannot seem to get over my ex-boyfriend. We were together for nine years and we had many ups and downs, but I loved him ... read more

I am so confused about my love life--I feel I am in love with my best friend, Kyle, but I also feel a bit ignored and hurt by him. We are not "tied" to each other and have freedom to do what we want, and I ... read more

I'm getting married in less then 2 weeks to the love of my life. This is not the first marriage for either of us. I sometimes get this "vision" of me crying and asking him "Why? Why are you doing this to ... read more

My girlfriend broke up with me about four months ago. It was unexpected and she never really told me why. I told her now much I love her and that I really want to marry her but our circumstances were ... read more

I'm having a problem with the relationship with my best friend. My birthday is 04/10/1980 and hers is 11/03/1979. We've been friends for about half of our lives, but I'm afraid that an unhealthy dynamic ... read more

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years. I am 48 and he is 43, neither of us has been married before, and we do not live together. We have known each other for seven years. My question is ... read more