Dear Red, I am still upset over the breakup with my boyfriend 3 months ago. We dated for 2 years and I was so certain he was “the one.” I’m very selective about who I let enter my world, ... read more

Dear Red, My husband left me about a year ago (without any warning). I have not heard from him or seen him since then, though I have tried many times to get in touch with him. I am his fourth wife. He told ... read more

Dear Red: I have always been unlucky in love. I have had missed opportunities that I find out about after the fact. I have had numerous love interests move half way across the country due to work or school ... read more

Dear Red, My birthday is Dec. 9, 1960 my son’s birthday is June 26, 1988 and my husband is June 13, 1960. We are really having a difficult time in our family. Our son Jay and his dad have never been ... read more

Dear Red, I have been having an online/phone relationship with this man I met through E-harmony for 7 months now. We talk often, spending hours on the phone. I want to meet in person and see if we can turn ... read more

Dear Red: I’ve been married for nearly 14 years and have discovered evidence of my husband’s infidelity. I’m so confused about whether or not I should leave. He has commented several ... read more

Dear Red: In December of ’04, I met John. We never intended our relationship to become anything more than a friendship, but it seems that it got out of hand for both of us. Now, a year since we ... read more

Dear Red, Scotty and I met online four years ago. There was an immediate connection — we were both blown away. Things happened in both of our lives that forced us to put things on hold. He eventually ... read more

I still miss my ex boyfriend. We broke up nearly 3 years ago and he moved to another city an hour and a half away, but we still talk. He calls me, and sometimes I call him. Usually, it's when I stop ... read more