Dear Red, My significant other and I met via an online dating site. Chatting on the phone, we clicked. And after our first actual date he stated that “neither of us were getting any younger” ... read more

Dear Red, I am in an interesting situation. Last year, during the process of my divorce, I reunited with an old and dear friend who I had not spoken to in 23 years. We have revived our friendship and even ... read more

Red, I met a man online a year ago. At first, I wanted to get involved with him. I enjoyed talking to him on the phone because he seemed to be such a supportive, caring and responsible person. But when we ... read more

Dear Red: I am or was having an affair with a married man and we got caught by his wife and mother-in-law 9 months ago. He still came by to see me and the last time we were together was incredible! Now I ... read more

Dear Red, I have been married for nearly 5 years and have helped and supported my husband financially through many difficult legal and financial challenges. I have also had the privilege of being stepmom ... read more

Dear Red, I have been speaking to two men long distance via the internet. The first one I met in March 2004. We were very close for over a year, I felt I had a very close connection with him (in a deep way ... read more

I have been married just over eight months now. As in every relationship, we have had ups and downs–well, more ups than downs, but since we have been married, things have changed. I know there are ... read more

I have a friend that I will call "El." We have been seeing each other for about two months and after one month of seeing each other he revealed that he has a live-in girlfriend. He spends a lot of time ... read more

I've been writing now for a while, I hope you will take my question this time. I cannot seem to get over my ex-boyfriend. We were together for nine years and we had many ups and downs, but I loved him ... read more

I am so confused about my love life--I feel I am in love with my best friend, Kyle, but I also feel a bit ignored and hurt by him. We are not "tied" to each other and have freedom to do what we want, and I ... read more